BM hates that her kids will be spending Christmas with my family

[Anonymous 1]

And she isnt even attempting to hide it. This year DH has the kids for Christmas. We are spending it with my parents this year. The kids are excited. They all love my parents and rest of the family. DH and I have been together since they were young so they grew up with my family being their family

We usually spend the Christmases we have with my step kids with DHs family but that isnt happening this year so we figured we would go see my family.

She has been very bitchy to everyone about it. I dont usually talk to her much but she came up to me when I was dropping the kids off at school to tell me how she felt. She thinks that it would be better for the kids to be with her instead of seeing my family.

I just told her that I was sorry that she felt that way and left.

She has even been telling the kids that they have the choice to stay with her instead. They even told her they would rather go than stay with just her. She doesnt have much family so they always spend holidays at BMs house on her years. Not that that is a horrible thing or anything but I do think they have a lot of fun being around others also.

The funny thing is that she has met most of my family and was nothing but nice and polite to them which was clearly fake.

We are going to have a good holiday either way but she is just being annoying.

Just venting

[ReadingRainbow]

That would crush me...
I feel for her.

It would be horrible to be without my babies on Christmas .

[WickedPissah]

Who the f**k cares.

[Anonymous 1]

That would crush me...
I feel for her.

It would be horrible to be without my babies on Christmas .

Well that is what happens when you share custody. DH is bummed when he doesnt have the kids also

[QuantumNursing]

That would crush me...
I feel for her.

It would be horrible to be without my babies on Christmas .

Thats not the issue for this BM. The issue is that her kids will be seeing OPs extended family. Not that she won't be seeing them

[ReadingRainbow]

That would crush me...
I feel for her.

It would be horrible to be without my babies on Christmas .

Thats not the issue for this BM. The issue is that her kids will be seeing OPs extended family. Not that she won't be seeing them

That’s your assumption because you only read a post written by the stepmother

[ReadingRainbow]

That would crush me...
I feel for her.

It would be horrible to be without my babies on Christmas .

Well that is what happens when you share custody. DH is bummed when he doesnt have the kids also

Ok.
But still.


I can understand if she feels devastated.

[Anonymous 1]

That would crush me...
I feel for her.

It would be horrible to be without my babies on Christmas .

Thats not the issue for this BM. The issue is that her kids will be seeing OPs extended family. Not that she won't be seeing them

That’s your assumption because you only read a post written by the stepmother

It is true though. She has never complained when we were with DHs family. She is specifically mad because they will be with my family.

[QuantumNursing]

That would crush me...
I feel for her.

It would be horrible to be without my babies on Christmas .

Thats not the issue for this BM. The issue is that her kids will be seeing OPs extended family. Not that she won't be seeing them

That’s your assumption because you only read a post written by the stepmother

That;s all the info we have

[ReadingRainbow]

Thats not the issue for this BM. The issue is that her kids will be seeing OPs extended family. Not that she won't be seeing them

That’s your assumption because you only read a post written by the stepmother

It is true though. She has never complained when we were with DHs family. She is specifically mad because they will be with my family.

Dh’s family is their family.
Yours is not.


I can still understand.