I’ve been trying to do more things on my own. The last year of my marriage I got a full time job and saved my own money. I hid it so my ex couldn’t blow it. NA has been good for meeting new people and going out and doing things. I’ve also been doing a lot of art therapy with my therapist and it’s gotten me really interested in art museums. I never realized how many art shows and events there were around me so that’s been fun.
piratemoo wrote: ↑Fri Jun 01, 2018 4:44 pm You're going through a lot right now and this Tony guy has been a good support. Give it time and don't do anything yet. Sometimes when we're in a vulnerable position, we may feel that we like someone, but really, we like what they have done for us, or are confused about what we want.
You need time to heal. Meet some more people, hold on the S*x and enjoy yourself in other ways. Pick up hobbies you've always wanted to try, or join a group for activity of some kind.
Then, once things are settled, if you still feel the same way - go for it.