Would it bother you if?

[Annoyed]

You recently got married, you find out that your husband is texting a female friend from his old job 3-4 times a week. (This has been going on since they worked together.)

They honestly don't talk about anything important. Just basically nonsense. like their pets (both of them have a ton of animals they adopted) I think the last conversation they had was about narwhals. He doesn't hide it but I still think it's weird and makes me uncomfortable.

He has offered for me to meet her if I want, I don't want to meet her.. I just want her to stop talking to him.

[Guest]

I am not insecure so it wouldnt bother me.

[CandTmom]

I don't pick my husband's friends and he doesn't pick mine.

[AJandJDsMom]

My SO has several female friends. He doesn't see them often, and he goes through spurts of talking to them often, and not talking to them for a while. There's one that he goes over and helps with things for her daughter from time to time. I know he loves me, and I know he would never jeopardize our relationship like that. I have no problems with him having female friends.

[PinchyTheCrab]

Maybe when I was younger and more immature.

[highlandmum]

Would not bother me at all.

[MrsDavidB]

Yes. We just don't share our lives with other people like that. Especially opposite gender.

[EmilyH87]

No, I'm not insecure like that. And I'd be a major hypocrite.

[mojogirl]

Your insecurity is showing. Better tuck that shit in.

[Vegaswife2011]

I wouldn’t like it.