Would it bother you if?

[Valentina327]

If she's married, invite her and her husband out to dinner with you and your husband.

See that's the weird thing about this friendship, She is 15 years older than him, divorced with 3 kids. I don't understand why he's friends with her, his explanation is she is a nice person and fun to talk to.......

I really don't want to meet her.

They have common ground and enjoy speaking to each other. So what?

Do you have friends outside of him or are you one of those that clings like saran wrap?

[SeekingPeace]

Do you and your husband share good conversation and do fun things together?

If she's married, invite her and her husband out to dinner with you and your husband.

See that's the weird thing about this friendship, She is 15 years older than him, divorced with 3 kids. I don't understand why he's friends with her, his explanation is she is a nice person and fun to talk to.......

I really don't want to meet her.

[bluebunnybabe]

They were friends before you were married, which means he's been having conversations with her since you were dating. You don't get to dictate his life. Just because you got married doesn't mean he needs to give up his friend because you're now all of a sudden uncomfortable.
If you had no issue with it before you were married, you don't have the right to complain now. Nothing has changed.

I wasn't happy about it when we were dating, but I thought once we were married she would be a thing of the past. I trust him, but I don't know her so I really don't trust her.

If you were unhappy about it before you married, that was really the time to bring it up.

[Annoyed]

If she's married, invite her and her husband out to dinner with you and your husband.

See that's the weird thing about this friendship, She is 15 years older than him, divorced with 3 kids. I don't understand why he's friends with her, his explanation is she is a nice person and fun to talk to.......

I really don't want to meet her.

They have common ground and enjoy speaking to each other. So what?

Do you have friends outside of him or are you one of those that clings like saran wrap?

Yes I do have a couple friends besides him. I mostly talk and spend time with my family.

[Annoyed]

Do you and your husband share good conversation and do fun things together?

If she's married, invite her and her husband out to dinner with you and your husband.

See that's the weird thing about this friendship, She is 15 years older than him, divorced with 3 kids. I don't understand why he's friends with her, his explanation is she is a nice person and fun to talk to.......

I really don't want to meet her.

We do, and he doesn't text her when he is spending time with me. I really just don't understand why he likes to talk to her.

[deltathree]

I wouldn't like it one bit. he probably wouldn't like it if it was the other way around.

[leadfoot40]

If he isn't hiding it then no I wouldn't care as long as texts me when i text him. Kwim.

[RedBottoms]

If all they talk about is stupid shit-then I would not care. If it starts becoming flirty or super intimate then I would shut it down. Talking about narwhals-I don't care

[agander2017]

He knows you don't like it, and he needs to respect your feelings, much like you would respect his. He offered to let you meet her, which means there's nothing going on, and he isn't hiding it, but that's not the point. You are newly married, and he needs to know how to handle a situation that bothers you. Whether it be talking to you about it, until you feel better, or to stop talking to her altogether. You can't help how you feel. And your feelings should be respected. But, so should his. I think you both need to sit down and talk this out.

[Deleted User 203]

How did you find out he's texting with her? And why didn't you know before you married him?

This is a friend of his. Why can't he text with her? Do you not have male friends?