My son's girlfriend wears

[Anonymous 1]

basically a thong bikini when we swim. We have a pool and a hot tub. She is 17. Would this bother you?

[Olioxenfree]

She’s almost an adult, plus it’s a private pool so it isn’t like there’s a dress code she needs to worry about, so no, I wouldn’t care.

[Anonymous 1]

I just would prefer not to see her butt. She has worn that when we are on the boat as well.

She’s almost an adult, plus it’s a private pool so it isn’t like there’s a dress code she needs to worry about, so no, I wouldn’t care.

[Anonymous 2]

She has no respect for you. I'm sure your son likes it though.

[Traci_Momof2]

In my backyard pool, no. I wouldn't care too much. As long as I'm not seeing anyone's genitals I'm good.

At a public pool / waterpark where children will be present, I think it's a little inappropriate having butt cheeks hanging out. Not everyone wants to see that and not everyone wants their kids to see it. But again I myself would never say anything.

[Anonymous 1]

Yeah I'm sure he does! I don't though!

She has no respect for you. I'm sure your son likes it though.

[MonarchMom]

In my backyard pool, no. I wouldn't care too much. As long as I'm not seeing anyone's genitals I'm good.

At a public pool / waterpark where children will be present, I think it's a little inappropriate having butt cheeks hanging out. Not everyone wants to see that and not everyone wants their kids to see it. But again I myself would never say anything.

Same here. DH and I are used to seeing quite a bit as we live in a resort area. People of all ages, sizes and body types, both male and female, seem very confident about wearing very little. Not my style, but I'd rather see people comfortable and enjoying life than have them not participate due to judgmental attitudes or inhibition.

[Anonymous 1]

I don't like it, but I don't think I can say anything either. I think that would make it even more awkward saying something than just dealing with it at times.

In my backyard pool, no. I wouldn't care too much. As long as I'm not seeing anyone's genitals I'm good.

At a public pool / waterpark where children will be present, I think it's a little inappropriate having butt cheeks hanging out. Not everyone wants to see that and not everyone wants their kids to see it. But again I myself would never say anything.

[newyearnewring]

I think it's kind of classless, private pool or not. How much it would bother me depends on how long they have been together and how close we are.

[Valentina327]

Clearly she hasn't been raised to exhibit any class what so ever. Why on earth would you want to be around your boyfriend's parents with your ass cheeks flapping for everyone to see? That's not cute. A friend's pool is very different where there's no parents. I wouldn't say anything however. I'd just let it be and silently cringe.

I also wouldn't be really thrilled with open, uncovered ass crack in my pool water. All I could think of is germs! LOL