highlandmum wrote: ↑Wed Feb 08, 2023 2:04 pmIf you are socializing to them why are you talking to their butt? You should be talking to their face. I have never noticed what bathing suit my daughters friends are wearing when they come over to swim.Momto2boys973 wrote: ↑Wed Feb 08, 2023 1:43 pm Well, not you. It would offend me and apparently many people here. If you think not looking is that easy, obviously you haven’t felt the need not to look at something. Not when it’s in your face. And if you’re in a pool, socializing with someone you can’t just not look.
So no tan lines? That’s the reason to go around with your butt cheeks hanging out? Why not go completely naked because unless you do that you will have tan lines somewhere in your body. Why is it so important not to have them in your butt?
I agree with the person who said OP should talk to her son about it and tell him that she finds that inappropriate in her home. If it doesn’t bother you, cool. But it bothered OP and there’s nothing wrong with that. She shouldn’t feel like she has to look everywhere but her butt in her own home.
Olioxenfree wrote: ↑Wed Feb 08, 2023 10:39 am No one shoving a butt in her face. Appropriately is a societal construct that can have differing interpretations. Some girls don’t want tan lines or are just more comfortable that way. She asked if it would bother me and I said no. I didn’t say what she had to feel. Just that it’s my opinion that if you don’t want to see her butt, don’t look at her butt, lots of other places to look, and if you see a glance of it while she jumps in the pool, I’ve seen a butt before and it’s not going to offend me.
I’m calling bullshit on ‘you never notice’ unless of course you’re blind.