I would tell her, those words cost her visitations for awhile. Maybe in the future she could see the kids, but you lost your trust in her.
That you understand that she was upset, but if she ever does that again, there wouldn't be any visitations ever again.
She is threatening to go after me for grandparent rights
Is she their biological grandparent? Is she a part of whatever legal situation that disables her son from seeing the kid's?Anonymous 1 wrote: ↑Tue Feb 07, 2023 11:42 amTo be able to get grandparent rights you have to legally be their grandparent. We have not had any real issues before this. She is throwing a fit because she didn't get her way.
She is biologically related to them. He lost parental rights for abandonment, my husband has since adopted them also. she wasn't directly involved in any of that.AZOldCoot wrote: ↑Tue Feb 07, 2023 11:46 amIs she their biological grandparent? Is she a part of whatever legal situation that disables her son from seeing the kid's?Anonymous 1 wrote: ↑Tue Feb 07, 2023 11:42 amTo be able to get grandparent rights you have to legally be their grandparent. We have not had any real issues before this. She is throwing a fit because she didn't get her way.
I get it and I'm on your side.Anonymous 1 wrote: ↑Tue Feb 07, 2023 11:52 amShe is biologically related to them. He lost parental rights for abandonment, my husband has since adopted them also. she wasn't directly involved in any of that.AZOldCoot wrote: ↑Tue Feb 07, 2023 11:46 amIs she their biological grandparent? Is she a part of whatever legal situation that disables her son from seeing the kid's?Anonymous 1 wrote: ↑Tue Feb 07, 2023 11:42 am
To be able to get grandparent rights you have to legally be their grandparent. We have not had any real issues before this. She is throwing a fit because she didn't get her way.
However, in the event she attempts to make good on her threat, you want to make sure you have all your legal bases covered.
Stranger things can happen and sometimes what seems easy 1-2-3 isn't always. Kwim?
They are but whateverAnonymous 1 wrote: ↑Tue Feb 07, 2023 9:25 amShe isn't legally their grandparent because my ex isn't legally their father anymore.Anonymous 2 wrote: ↑Tue Feb 07, 2023 8:35 am Just because their father has no rights doesn't mean she isn't legally their grandparent.
But you are right she has no leg to stand on since she's not an active part of their daily lives
Can you site the law that states thatAnonymous 1 wrote: ↑Tue Feb 07, 2023 11:42 amTo be able to get grandparent rights you have to legally be their grandparent. We have not had any real issues before this. She is throwing a fit because she didn't get her way.
Oh good a 'legal' post. You are the fool here for even allowing her to have your phone number. You must love drama.
No she isn't. My ex isn't legally the dad so she is not legally a grandparent.Anonymous 2 wrote: ↑Tue Feb 07, 2023 1:25 pmThey are but whateverAnonymous 1 wrote: ↑Tue Feb 07, 2023 9:25 amShe isn't legally their grandparent because my ex isn't legally their father anymore.Anonymous 2 wrote: ↑Tue Feb 07, 2023 8:35 am Just because their father has no rights doesn't mean she isn't legally their grandparent.
But you are right she has no leg to stand on since she's not an active part of their daily lives
I have no need to. It's okay if you don't understand how it works, you can look it up if you wantAnonymous 2 wrote: ↑Tue Feb 07, 2023 1:27 pmCan you site the law that states thatAnonymous 1 wrote: ↑Tue Feb 07, 2023 11:42 amTo be able to get grandparent rights you have to legally be their grandparent. We have not had any real issues before this. She is throwing a fit because she didn't get her way.