My ex was an abusive POS. I never told him I was pregnant. He found out I had my daughter when she was 2. There was no way I was going to allow her around him.
He took me to court to be able to get a DNA test done. The court allowed it but only required my daughter to be tested, not me after I fought it.
I took my niece in for the test. My ex was not the father and I haven't heard from him since. He's currently in jail for nearly killing his next girlfriend.
The other post got me thinking about all this again.
I faked a DNA test
I fought having to take a test myself with a lawyer. I didn't want my DNA being on file anywhere and then I could not have done what I had done if I was tested.