New guy I am seeing is going away

[Olioxenfree]

Why would you think his plans would suddenly change just because you started to date? Is he not supposed to have a life outside of your relationship? Is he allowed to have his own friends or is he only allowed to be friends with those you say are okay?

It's weird to be away from someone you just started dating

No, it isn’t. It’s weird to think that someone should never leave town because they are dating.

[Anonymous 5]

Bike week is over a month away. Would it make you feel better if he asked you to join him?

[Quorra2.0]

Yes.

Why shouldn’t/wouldn’t he go?

I just thought he would not not to be away from me.

Idk, when I was single, if a guy I just started dating didn’t want to be away from me I ended it. That clingy that fast was like a red flag trigger for me. A relationship has to progress naturally and for some people, doing ones own thing is part of that.

[SoFloMom]

By “going away” I thought you meant going to prison, lol. Oops.


And yes. Why wouldn’t he go just because he’s dating you? Stage 5 clinger reaction.

[Anonymous 6]

Clearly, you're going to have to chain him to the radiator. Fix him a nice rabbit stew. He'll come around.

[Anonymous 6]

Yes.

Why shouldn’t/wouldn’t he go?

I just thought he would not not to be away from me.

Why on earth would you think that? Are you in high school? Maybe he'll give you his class ring! You can get some angora and wear it while he's gone! You're incredibly immature if you're an adult. Don't let on to him that you're like this or he'll be the man you used to date.

[Anonymous 6]

By “going away” I thought you meant going to prison, lol. Oops.


And yes. Why wouldn’t he go just because he’s dating you? Stage 5 clinger reaction.

[Momto2boys973]

Yikes! Are you always this clingy?
If he’s lucky, he’ll dodge that bullet…

[EmilyH87]

Why would you think his plans would suddenly change just because you started to date? Is he not supposed to have a life outside of your relationship? Is he allowed to have his own friends or is he only allowed to be friends with those you say are okay?

It's weird to be away from someone you just started dating

No, it's weird to think they should be fixated on only you. Especially for plans that predate your relationship.

[Traci_Momof2]

What's his contact info so I can warn him to run away as fast as he can.

Someone as clingy and possessive as you is a huge red flag for a relationship.