What a messy bun is my go-to hair style. I've got long, kinky, grey hair and it just is easy and casual for me to pop it up rather than fidget with getting hairs in place. For professional functions, I spend more time and either wear it down or in a slick bun but everyday? I just forget about it.
I'm stunned to read that what I thought was a messy bun isn't. I'm now not sure what it is I'm wearing. Perhaps a bun that is messy, lol?