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I miss having someone to bounce decisions off of

Posted: Tue Dec 10, 2019 3:38 pm
by Bubbs
Or someone to go to when I’m overwhelmed, angry or sad.
It’s ok, but sometimes It would be nice to look at someone & day “I’m tired today, can you pick up the kids, or pick up dinner”

The kids have been great about doing dishes and stuff, but they are still kids

Re: I miss having someone to bounce decisions off of

Posted: Tue Dec 17, 2019 2:58 pm
by Deleted User 172
Bubbs wrote: Tue Dec 10, 2019 3:38 pm Or someone to go to when I’m overwhelmed, angry or sad.
It’s ok, but sometimes It would be nice to look at someone & day “I’m tired today, can you pick up the kids, or pick up dinner”

The kids have been great about doing dishes and stuff, but they are still kids
I miss having someone I can rely on too.

Re: I miss having someone to bounce decisions off of

Posted: Wed Dec 18, 2019 8:14 am
by Bubbs
Dylexsmommy wrote: Tue Dec 17, 2019 2:58 pm
Bubbs wrote: Tue Dec 10, 2019 3:38 pm Or someone to go to when I’m overwhelmed, angry or sad.
It’s ok, but sometimes It would be nice to look at someone & day “I’m tired today, can you pick up the kids, or pick up dinner”

The kids have been great about doing dishes and stuff, but they are still kids
I miss having someone I can rely on too.
I hate to admit it, it makes me feel weak or needy.
I get lonely if I think about it too long

Re: I miss having someone to bounce decisions off of

Posted: Wed Dec 18, 2019 9:27 am
by Deleted User 172
Bubbs wrote: Wed Dec 18, 2019 8:14 am
Dylexsmommy wrote: Tue Dec 17, 2019 2:58 pm
Bubbs wrote: Tue Dec 10, 2019 3:38 pm Or someone to go to when I’m overwhelmed, angry or sad.
It’s ok, but sometimes It would be nice to look at someone & day “I’m tired today, can you pick up the kids, or pick up dinner”

The kids have been great about doing dishes and stuff, but they are still kids
I miss having someone I can rely on too.
I hate to admit it, it makes me feel weak or needy.
I get lonely if I think about it too long
I get it. The best advice i can give is to believe in yourself. You can do it!
I cried yesterday. In fact i was crying when i wrote my reply.
I've been having issues with my little one and I can't help but thinking he misses his dad and is acting out because of it.

10 years from now you'll look back at this time and be glad you made it through.