My mom is saying I'm horrible for missing what might be her last Thanksgiving
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I swear I read this last November.
Of course not, but she's not a manipulative bitch like OP's mother. Did you just appoint yourself as the group's morality or conscience police? You can kindly f**k offAnonymous 7 wrote: βSun Nov 10, 2019 8:58 amIs this how you speak to your own mother? Did noone teach you how to communicate without being rude? The polite way to describe her mother's behavior is guilt tripping.. Even just saying manipulative is acceptable. Calling her mother a bitch just isn't necessary. Unless you are a troll with no manners.Anonymous 3 wrote: βSat Nov 09, 2019 10:03 amTell her thats sad but since she' a manipulative bitch, you won't be coming for Christmas this year eitherAnonymous 1 wrote: βSat Nov 09, 2019 9:42 am My mom has some mild health issues. Nothing crazy but she likes to use it as an excuse to guilt trip me.
My husband, kids, and I moved from the US over 10 years ago. Going back for Thanksgiving has never been a viable option because it is expensive and the kids have school. We do visit every year for Christmas.
My mom always bitches about us not going for Thanksgiving. Now she is using the "it might be my last one" excuse.
It is getting so annoying and making me not want to even want to go see her at all. She says I'm selfish but really she is the one being selfish.
That's exactly what she is, as you can see from her last response.Anonymous 7 wrote: βSun Nov 10, 2019 8:58 amIs this how you speak to your own mother? Did noone teach you how to communicate without being rude? The polite way to describe her mother's behavior is guilt tripping.. Even just saying manipulative is acceptable. Calling her mother a bitch just isn't necessary. Unless you are a troll with no manners.Anonymous 3 wrote: βSat Nov 09, 2019 10:03 amTell her thats sad but since she' a manipulative bitch, you won't be coming for Christmas this year eitherAnonymous 1 wrote: βSat Nov 09, 2019 9:42 am My mom has some mild health issues. Nothing crazy but she likes to use it as an excuse to guilt trip me.
My husband, kids, and I moved from the US over 10 years ago. Going back for Thanksgiving has never been a viable option because it is expensive and the kids have school. We do visit every year for Christmas.
My mom always bitches about us not going for Thanksgiving. Now she is using the "it might be my last one" excuse.
It is getting so annoying and making me not want to even want to go see her at all. She says I'm selfish but really she is the one being selfish.
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You probably did, just like it was posted about on CM too.
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I find it interesting that you have chosen to berate 3 but havent done the same to 2. Number 2's reply were worse but I suspect you know that since you are probably 2 under another accountAnonymous 7 wrote: βSun Nov 10, 2019 8:58 amIs this how you speak to your own mother? Did noone teach you how to communicate without being rude? The polite way to describe her mother's behavior is guilt tripping.. Even just saying manipulative is acceptable. Calling her mother a bitch just isn't necessary. Unless you are a troll with no manners.Anonymous 3 wrote: βSat Nov 09, 2019 10:03 amTell her thats sad but since she' a manipulative bitch, you won't be coming for Christmas this year eitherAnonymous 1 wrote: βSat Nov 09, 2019 9:42 am My mom has some mild health issues. Nothing crazy but she likes to use it as an excuse to guilt trip me.
My husband, kids, and I moved from the US over 10 years ago. Going back for Thanksgiving has never been a viable option because it is expensive and the kids have school. We do visit every year for Christmas.
My mom always bitches about us not going for Thanksgiving. Now she is using the "it might be my last one" excuse.
It is getting so annoying and making me not want to even want to go see her at all. She says I'm selfish but really she is the one being selfish.
OP ignore your mother and go ahead with whatever plans you have for the holiday. If she is still acting like this when you are stateside, adjust your plans to not include your mother
Nah that would be me. I just never got around to editing my first post calling OP's mother a manipulative bitch. Anyone who is crass enough to guilt trip her daughter and family over F***ing thanksgivings ng knowing she and her family will be in the States for Christmas not even a month later by using "this might be my last' is a manipulative,soul sucking bitchLustywench wrote: βSun Nov 10, 2019 1:34 pmI find it interesting that you have chosen to berate 3 but havent done the same to 2. Number 2's reply were worse but I suspect you know that since you are probably 2 under another accountAnonymous 7 wrote: βSun Nov 10, 2019 8:58 amIs this how you speak to your own mother? Did noone teach you how to communicate without being rude? The polite way to describe her mother's behavior is guilt tripping.. Even just saying manipulative is acceptable. Calling her mother a bitch just isn't necessary. Unless you are a troll with no manners.Anonymous 3 wrote: βSat Nov 09, 2019 10:03 am
Tell her thats sad but since she' a manipulative bitch, you won't be coming for Christmas this year either
OP ignore your mother and go ahead with whatever plans you have for the holiday. If she is still acting like this when you are stateside, adjust your plans to not include your mother
Well when you behave like an ill mannered ass be prepared for people to form opinions about you. You don't know her mother so why are you calling her a bitch? Clearly your mother never taught you manners or how to converse with others without calling people names. You sound like such a classy woman. Good luck with that..Anonymous 3 wrote: βSun Nov 10, 2019 10:25 amOf course not, but she's not a manipulative bitch like OP's mother. Did you just appoint yourself as the group's morality or conscience police? You can kindly f**k offAnonymous 7 wrote: βSun Nov 10, 2019 8:58 amIs this how you speak to your own mother? Did noone teach you how to communicate without being rude? The polite way to describe her mother's behavior is guilt tripping.. Even just saying manipulative is acceptable. Calling her mother a bitch just isn't necessary. Unless you are a troll with no manners.Anonymous 3 wrote: βSat Nov 09, 2019 10:03 am
Tell her thats sad but since she' a manipulative bitch, you won't be coming for Christmas this year either
Yep. Youβre a troll......Anonymous 3 wrote: βSun Nov 10, 2019 10:25 amOf course not, but she's not a manipulative bitch like OP's mother. Did you just appoint yourself as the group's morality or conscience police? You can kindly f**k offAnonymous 7 wrote: βSun Nov 10, 2019 8:58 amIs this how you speak to your own mother? Did noone teach you how to communicate without being rude? The polite way to describe her mother's behavior is guilt tripping.. Even just saying manipulative is acceptable. Calling her mother a bitch just isn't necessary. Unless you are a troll with no manners.Anonymous 3 wrote: βSat Nov 09, 2019 10:03 am
Tell her thats sad but since she' a manipulative bitch, you won't be coming for Christmas this year either
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I'd ask her if somethings happened and she's gotten some kind of diagnosis. If she hadn't said that type of thing in prior years, just asked you to come in, I'd be concerned that something has changed.