I did premarital counseling. My pastor said he won't marry people without them completing a premarital counseling session with him. I know our area has a charity calls "First Things First" and they do free premarital counseling and seminars and give out entries to win free cruises and shit like that to everyone that attends. Last I checked Tennessee waives the marriage license fee if you do premarital counseling or lowers the fee.Guest wrote: ↑Sun Jul 08, 2018 2:47 pmIf your daughter came to you and said her husband had cheated on her after 10 happy years of marriage would you honestly say it was her fault?RedBottoms wrote: ↑Sun Jul 08, 2018 2:40 pmDid you do premarital counseling?Guest wrote: ↑Sun Jul 08, 2018 2:36 pm
No you didnt answer. Also it is more complicated when you are getting married in an international relationship. My visa was for work not marriage.
How do you properly vet a guy? I am honestly curious
If your husband cheating on you now would you think you didnt properly vet him?
Yes, I would blame myself that I did not vet him and that maybe I was not working on our marriage as much as I should have
and why did you decide to get pregnant and allow yourself to get pregnant before marriage?
We didnt do premarital counseling but that is not a common thing and I dont know anyone who has actually done that. I have known this guy for over 20 years and there were no warning signs because there was no warning it would happen. His ex girlfriend showed up at his door. I found out that next day and left right then and there
Our son wasnt planned. I had an IUD but we were still happy
So I don't buy that "Nobody does it". Responsible people do it.