My grandkids are probably being removed by DCF

Unread post Tue Sep 24, 2019 4:39 pm

I’m so mad at my son about it. I’m sure they are removing them this week and honestly he deserves it.

I’ve talked to the case worker and I’m going to take care of them. I can’t stand them being with strangers in a foster home. It’s so sad.

I just can’t get over how pissed I am at him for doing this.

Unread post Tue Sep 24, 2019 4:40 pm

Why are they being removed?

Unread post Tue Sep 24, 2019 4:43 pm

What happened? Where is their mom?

Unread post Tue Sep 24, 2019 4:45 pm

I'm sorry. I'm glad they'll be with you.
Why are they being removed?

Unread post Tue Sep 24, 2019 4:50 pm

Vegaswife2011 wrote: ↑Tue Sep 24, 2019 4:43 pm What happened? Where is their mom?

Mom is a meth addict and hasn’t seen them in 2 and 1/2 years. He’s neglecting them.

Unread post Tue Sep 24, 2019 4:53 pm

Anonymous 2 wrote: ↑Tue Sep 24, 2019 4:45 pm I'm sorry. I'm glad they'll be with you.
Why are they being removed?

He’s basically neglecting them. They are dirty and he’s not properly supervising them. His place was beyond dirty. He has a good job and the state pays daycare but he got evicted.

Unread post Tue Sep 24, 2019 4:55 pm

Anonymous 1 wrote: ↑Tue Sep 24, 2019 4:53 pm
Anonymous 2 wrote: ↑Tue Sep 24, 2019 4:45 pm I'm sorry. I'm glad they'll be with you.
Why are they being removed?
He’s basically neglecting them. They are dirty and he’s not properly supervising them. His place was beyond dirty. He has a good job and the state pays daycare but he got evicted.

ugh, how sad. I'm sorry, I hope you have the energy to take care of them. And I also hope that at some point he gets his shit together enough to get them back.

Unread post Tue Sep 24, 2019 4:58 pm

Anonymous 1 wrote: ↑Tue Sep 24, 2019 4:50 pm
Vegaswife2011 wrote: ↑Tue Sep 24, 2019 4:43 pm What happened? Where is their mom?
Mom is a meth addict and hasn’t seen them in 2 and 1/2 years. He’s neglecting them.

Wow. I’m so sorry. I’m glad they have you. How old are they?

Unread post Tue Sep 24, 2019 5:03 pm

I am sorry, but grateful the kids have a safe, stable, loving, home to go too.

I would only ask that you keep in mind, the state may set limits to your son's contact with the kids. If you don't follow it to the letter, then they could be moved to another home.

It is a difficult spot to be in, as a grandparent because you want what is best for your child,(no matter how old they are) and what is best for your grandchildren. Thank you for stepping up to care for them, you would be surprised how many grandparents won't.

Unread post Tue Sep 24, 2019 5:11 pm

That's awful. I'm so sorry your family is going through all of that. Thank goodness you're able to take them in. Some grandma time will do them good.

My grandkids are probably being removed by DCF

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