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Every time I have a weekend off my SIL.texts me Good morning shug and what are plans are for today. I usually ignore here. But eventually she finds out what we are doing and gets offended because she was wxcluded or if she finds out before the activity she talks mad crap about how she doesnt like doing those things....Uhhh you werent invited. It drives me absolitely bonkers. Between the shug thing (like what is that),her trying to be invasive into.our lives and her constantly bugging me for info on her son she is driving me F***ing insane.
Today after I ignored her text she showed up unannounced right when the chinese delivery guy showed. I told her that I wasnt up for visitors and to be sure to.call or text before coming over. Evidently that was offensive and started going on about how we are excluding her. Excluding her from what? Me sitting around in my pjs eating takeout? Thats when she started asking about her sin and once again I had to tell her that no I wasnt giving her his phone number,his address or anything else about him and his wife. He has made it perfectly clear aboit this so why does she keep asking. She went on a mini rant that she was his mom and was entitled to that info. I told her that no she wasnt and until she can remember that not to call,text or associate with me on any terms...So damn frustrating
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QuantumNursing wrote: Sat Aug 17, 2019 1:51 pm Every time I have a weekend off my SIL.texts me Good morning shug and what are plans are for today. I usually ignore here. But eventually she finds out what we are doing and gets offended because she was wxcluded or if she finds out before the activity she talks mad crap about how she doesnt like doing those things....Uhhh you werent invited. It drives me absolitely bonkers. Between the shug thing (like what is that),her trying to be invasive into.our lives and her constantly bugging me for info on her son she is driving me F***ing insane.
Today after I ignored her text she showed up unannounced right when the chinese delivery guy showed. I told her that I wasnt up for visitors and to be sure to.call or text before coming over. Evidently that was offensive and started going on about how we are excluding her. Excluding her from what? Me sitting around in my pjs eating takeout? Thats when she started asking about her sin and once again I had to tell her that no I wasnt giving her his phone number,his address or anything else about him and his wife. He has made it perfectly clear aboit this so why does she keep asking. She went on a mini rant that she was his mom and was entitled to that info. I told her that no she wasnt and until she can remember that not to call,text or associate with me on any terms...So damn frustrating
And you said you didn't have any drama in your life. This is drama, hahaha
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QuantumNursing wrote: Sat Aug 17, 2019 1:51 pm Every time I have a weekend off my SIL.texts me Good morning shug and what are plans are for today. I usually ignore here. But eventually she finds out what we are doing and gets offended because she was wxcluded or if she finds out before the activity she talks mad crap about how she doesnt like doing those things....Uhhh you werent invited. It drives me absolitely bonkers. Between the shug thing (like what is that),her trying to be invasive into.our lives and her constantly bugging me for info on her son she is driving me F***ing insane.
Today after I ignored her text she showed up unannounced right when the chinese delivery guy showed. I told her that I wasnt up for visitors and to be sure to.call or text before coming over. Evidently that was offensive and started going on about how we are excluding her. Excluding her from what? Me sitting around in my pjs eating takeout? Thats when she started asking about her sin and once again I had to tell her that no I wasnt giving her his phone number,his address or anything else about him and his wife. He has made it perfectly clear aboit this so why does she keep asking. She went on a mini rant that she was his mom and was entitled to that info. I told her that no she wasnt and until she can remember that not to call,text or associate with me on any terms...So damn frustrating
And you said you didn't have any drama in your life. This is drama, hahaha
No this is a lottle anoyance to which I recognize that Im being unreasonable. Its annoying as f**k though. Drama was when one of my MILs deliberately dumped over a deep fryer on my 16 yos hand causing 2nd and 3rd degree burns. The injury itself,surgery,rehab,court case....Thats F***ing drama
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Ugh...she sounds annoying.
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QuantumNursing wrote: Sat Aug 17, 2019 2:39 pm
Anonymous 1 wrote: Sat Aug 17, 2019 2:20 pm
QuantumNursing wrote: Sat Aug 17, 2019 1:51 pm Every time I have a weekend off my SIL.texts me Good morning shug and what are plans are for today. I usually ignore here. But eventually she finds out what we are doing and gets offended because she was wxcluded or if she finds out before the activity she talks mad crap about how she doesnt like doing those things....Uhhh you werent invited. It drives me absolitely bonkers. Between the shug thing (like what is that),her trying to be invasive into.our lives and her constantly bugging me for info on her son she is driving me F***ing insane.
Today after I ignored her text she showed up unannounced right when the chinese delivery guy showed. I told her that I wasnt up for visitors and to be sure to.call or text before coming over. Evidently that was offensive and started going on about how we are excluding her. Excluding her from what? Me sitting around in my pjs eating takeout? Thats when she started asking about her sin and once again I had to tell her that no I wasnt giving her his phone number,his address or anything else about him and his wife. He has made it perfectly clear aboit this so why does she keep asking. She went on a mini rant that she was his mom and was entitled to that info. I told her that no she wasnt and until she can remember that not to call,text or associate with me on any terms...So damn frustrating
And you said you didn't have any drama in your life. This is drama, hahaha
No this is a lottle anoyance to which I recognize that Im being unreasonable. Its annoying as f**k though. Drama was when one of my MILs deliberately dumped over a deep fryer on my 16 yos hand causing 2nd and 3rd degree burns. The injury itself,surgery,rehab,court case....Thats F***ing drama
Is she still alive?
I stand corrected, this is nothing compared to that, smh
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QuantumNursing wrote: Sat Aug 17, 2019 2:39 pm
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And you said you didn't have any drama in your life. This is drama, hahaha
No this is a lottle anoyance to which I recognize that Im being unreasonable. Its annoying as f**k though. Drama was when one of my MILs deliberately dumped over a deep fryer on my 16 yos hand causing 2nd and 3rd degree burns. The injury itself,surgery,rehab,court case....Thats F***ing drama
Is she still alive?
I stand corrected, this is nothing compared to that, smh
Yes she is still alive but serving 5 to 7 in a state penitentiary. This is more of I had a week of 4 16 hour shifts and all I wanted to do is eat Chinese, smoke a blunt and binge watch "The Librarians" or have the "The Librarians" watch me. Whichever came first
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Vegaswife2011 wrote: Sat Aug 17, 2019 2:47 pm Ugh...she sounds annoying.
So very much so. I'm really trying hard not to cuss her the f**k out because I know she is hurting but its becoming too much
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That's annoying as crap.
i want candy!
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QuantumNursing wrote: Sat Aug 17, 2019 4:26 pm
Vegaswife2011 wrote: Sat Aug 17, 2019 2:47 pm Ugh...she sounds annoying.
So very much so. I'm really trying hard not to cuss her the f**k out because I know she is hurting but its becoming too much
What happened? Why don’t they have anything to do with her?
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Vegaswife2011 wrote: Sat Aug 17, 2019 7:13 pm
QuantumNursing wrote: Sat Aug 17, 2019 4:26 pm
Vegaswife2011 wrote: Sat Aug 17, 2019 2:47 pm Ugh...she sounds annoying.
So very much so. I'm really trying hard not to cuss her the f**k out because I know she is hurting but its becoming too much
What happened? Why don’t they have anything to do with her?
Because they have decided to be child free.They flat out don't like children and her son had a vasctomy. She threw a tantrum and Nephew told her until she can control herself they want nothing to do with her. She is grieving hard and going through all the steps
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