Future MIL ruining my wedding!

[Anonymous 1]

So my future MIL is trying to take over my wedding. I wanted it to be just a small ceremony at a courthouse no fuss no muss type thing with only immediate family,my Best friend and our DD. DF and I have been together for 10 years and engaged since April.

She convinced FH that we needed over 100 people at the wedding. Dinner,dancing the whole 9 yards...She has told little SIL that she is my maid of honour, she wants to include big SIL (who we don’t have a relationship with but recently reconnected) to be in the wedding.

She forced me to go dress shopping and I could only try on stuff that she liked. She even went as far as to buy me an extremely stained dress from a thrift store because she could see me getting married in it.

The wedding is next summer.

[Sassy762]

So my future MIL is trying to take over my wedding. I wanted it to be just a small ceremony at a courthouse no fuss no muss type thing with only immediate family,my Best friend and our DD. DF and I have been together for 10 years and engaged since April.

She convinced FH that we needed over 100 people at the wedding. Dinner,dancing the whole 9 yards...She has told little SIL that she is my maid of honour, she wants to include big SIL (who we don’t have a relationship with but recently reconnected) to be in the wedding.

She forced me to go dress shopping and I could only try on stuff that she liked. She even went as far as to buy me an extremely stained dress from a thrift store because she could see me getting married in it.

The wedding is next summer.

[Anonymous 2]

I would shut that down so quick. Go elope at the courthouse and plan a simple dinner and invite who you want to invite.

[Anonymous 3]

You don't have to do anything. Go to the courthouse next week. Tell her after the fact.
She'll live.

[Anonymous 4]

That is precisely what I would do!

You don't have to do anything. Go to the courthouse next week. Tell her after the fact.
She'll live.

[Anonymous 5]

You sound like an idiot. Go to the courthouse it isnt like the wedding is really going to make a difference in your life anyway

[Anonymous 6]

Why are you allowing this to happen?

[Vegaswife2011]

Have you ever heard of the word NO?

[Anonymous 7]

Who pissed in your Cheerios this morning?!?

You sound like an idiot. Go to the courthouse it isnt like the wedding is really going to make a difference in your life anyway

[Anonymous 8]

You’ve been with him for 10 years and have a kid. Go get married at the courthouse and stop her nonsense, that ship has sailed.