She has been trying to micromanage everything. Custody changed last year because of DHs job. It went from 50/50 to every other weekend + him getting the majority of the summer with the kids. Luckily it will be back to normal in a few months.
BM has been trying to tell us how to do every little thing. We should feed the kids this, or we should get them up at this time to make it to that, or we should be spending more time focusing on this other thing.
DH has tried to tell her to back off but she just wont. We decided to block her. There is really no reason we need to be talking to her directly. She still can talk the kids all she wants on their phones.
We even blocked her on the home phone because she was calling that with a blocked number 3-4 times a day. She is probably just bored and lonely which I can understand but that doesnt mean she needs to be up our assess all the time.
If someone is going to drive me nuts all day with phone calls, I'd stop answering the phone, too.
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