wel, that's just too bad

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Unread post Fri May 17, 2019 9:30 pm

My husband's ex left him 5 years ago suddenly. He was away on a business trip and his daughter called and said that her mom was packing her car and leaving. It left everyone in a lurch because their daughter had a 3 year old and she was the primary babysitter. She moved literally halfway across country. My dh gave her a great settlement, including half a million dollars and a new car during the divorce because she had been a SAHM for 25 years.
She is now broke and wants to move in her daughter who JUST 2 months ago moved into her own apartment.
She is giving the daughter a guilt trip because she is not welcoming her mom with open arms into a tiny apartment when the woman has not assets, is in renal failure, needs hip and knee replacement surgery, cannot drive, and has no way to support herself. Her social security is currently based on her work history, so she only gets $400 a month until my dh retires, which will be at least 5 or more years. Grr

Just wanted to vent. My dh keeps saying that it;s her mother so she needs to take care of her, but the daughter is barely holding herself above water WITH our help.
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Unread post Fri May 17, 2019 9:32 pm

Your dh needs to support his dd in saying no to her mother.
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Unread post Fri May 17, 2019 9:32 pm

This story line is way overdone.....
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Unread post Fri May 17, 2019 9:39 pm

BM isn't happy again.
The oranges of the island are like blazing fire
Amongst the emerald boughs
And the lemons are like the paleness of a lover
Who has spent the night crying.


My soul was ripped to shreds on 10/27/14. I miss you!
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Unread post Fri May 17, 2019 9:54 pm

MistressMonster wrote:
Fri May 17, 2019 9:39 pm
BM isn't happy again.
I think BM needs to get laid and smoke a joint!
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Unread post Fri May 17, 2019 10:23 pm

MeAF wrote:
Fri May 17, 2019 9:54 pm
MistressMonster wrote:
Fri May 17, 2019 9:39 pm
BM isn't happy again.
I think BM needs to get laid and smoke a joint!
Joint is not enough. She needs a blunt
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Unread post Sat May 18, 2019 11:39 am

MysticDreamer wrote:
Fri May 17, 2019 9:32 pm
This story line is way overdone.....
It's true, though. The woman went through half a million and only has a house in a small town up north worth less than 100K and about 10k in cash after less than 5 years. I just don't see how she could do that. And she's mad at their son for not sending her money. It's hard to stay out of it. She's a hot mess. Her son is a retirement planner and offered to help his mom invest her settlement and live on a certain amount each year, but she declined his help back in the day ( I wasn't around then as I met their dad the next year).
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Unread post Sat May 18, 2019 11:41 am

QuantumNursing wrote:
Fri May 17, 2019 10:23 pm
MeAF wrote:
Fri May 17, 2019 9:54 pm
MistressMonster wrote:
Fri May 17, 2019 9:39 pm
BM isn't happy again.
I think BM needs to get laid and smoke a joint!
Joint is not enough. She needs a blunt
That may have been where a lot of her money went. I have nothing against pot. I indulge myself, but I think she gets high and orders a lot of crap online
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Unread post Sat May 18, 2019 11:42 am

Righttttttt.......
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