I found a lump in my breast about 2 weeks ago. I went to my doctor, she says since it's soft and moves easily it's probably just a cyst but she wants me to go have a mammogram just in case.
So I mentioned it to my mom and she flipped out. She's like You're only 35! I'll come with you! You'll be ok!
The worst part is I think she told my dad too. He keeps looking at me like it'll be the last time he sees me.
UGH. I shouldn't have told.
I shouldn't have told her
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She sounds like my mom lol. I keep stuff like that to myself because my mom and sisters will freak out.Dylexsmommy wrote: ↑Wed May 15, 2019 1:56 pm I found a lump in my breast about 2 weeks ago. I went to my doctor, she says since it's soft and moves easily it's probably just a cyst but she wants me to go have a mammogram just in case.
So I mentioned it to my mom and she flipped out. She's like You're only 35! I'll come with you! You'll be ok!
The worst part is I think she told my dad too. He keeps looking at me like it'll be the last time he sees me.
UGH. I shouldn't have told.
If my mom finds out one of us has as much as a cold shes calling and messaging me all day. Like she wants details! Well what's not feeling good? But are you throwing up? Right down to how many times have you blown your nose today? I just keep repeating its because she cares but yeah I avoid telling her!
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Sounds like my mom. I usually keep my mouth shut until I know more
Lol, this is so my mom too.Anonymous 1 wrote: ↑Wed May 15, 2019 2:12 pm If my mom finds out one of us has as much as a cold shes calling and messaging me all day. Like she wants details! Well what's not feeling good? But are you throwing up? Right down to how many times have you blown your nose today? I just keep repeating its because she cares but yeah I avoid telling her!
I stepped on a nail in April and had to go get a tetanus shot. She flipped out and wanted to know all the details.
It's like geez mom, chill out, I'm not a baby I can take care of myself!
I'm more irritated that she told my dad though. I don't like the look on his face when he looks at me.
Yeah, I'll learn someday. Theres somethings I've never told and I'm usually very good at keeping secrets. Idk why I said something on this.Gorilla_Mama wrote: ↑Wed May 15, 2019 2:13 pm Sounds like my mom. I usually keep my mouth shut until I know more
Oh lawd, if my sister knew she would flip out.RealisticBeauty wrote: ↑Wed May 15, 2019 2:02 pmShe sounds like my mom lol. I keep stuff like that to myself because my mom and sisters will freak out.Dylexsmommy wrote: ↑Wed May 15, 2019 1:56 pm I found a lump in my breast about 2 weeks ago. I went to my doctor, she says since it's soft and moves easily it's probably just a cyst but she wants me to go have a mammogram just in case.
So I mentioned it to my mom and she flipped out. She's like You're only 35! I'll come with you! You'll be ok!
The worst part is I think she told my dad too. He keeps looking at me like it'll be the last time he sees me.
UGH. I shouldn't have told.
I really hope it's nothing just so I dont have to deal with the freaking out and demands to go to all the doctors appointments with me
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Good luck! My sister found the same thing and it was a cyst.Dylexsmommy wrote: ↑Wed May 15, 2019 2:16 pmOh lawd, if my sister knew she would flip out.RealisticBeauty wrote: ↑Wed May 15, 2019 2:02 pmShe sounds like my mom lol. I keep stuff like that to myself because my mom and sisters will freak out.Dylexsmommy wrote: ↑Wed May 15, 2019 1:56 pm I found a lump in my breast about 2 weeks ago. I went to my doctor, she says since it's soft and moves easily it's probably just a cyst but she wants me to go have a mammogram just in case.
So I mentioned it to my mom and she flipped out. She's like You're only 35! I'll come with you! You'll be ok!
The worst part is I think she told my dad too. He keeps looking at me like it'll be the last time he sees me.
UGH. I shouldn't have told.
I really hope it's nothing just so I dont have to deal with the freaking out and demands to go to all the doctors appointments with me
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There is only way to be certain that information you dont want getting passed around doesn't get passed around by well-meaning people.
I can see where this would be a trigger for most Moms. Unless she is known for being a port in a storm and doesn't get scared easily.
I can see where this would be a trigger for most Moms. Unless she is known for being a port in a storm and doesn't get scared easily.