WWYD?

[Anonymous 1]

I have a cousin that I felt very close to for many years. We had good times and also went through something tragic together. She hasn't always been the most reliable person. Well, now she has a child. I saw him 2 times last year. She will send me a text every now and then that she can't wait for me to see her baby growing up and that she promises we will get together soon. This is after she has cancelled a few times already. The last time I saw her was beginning of October. I even have a Christmas present for the baby but I will have to take it back because it is a winter outfit and it's no longer winter.

Would you try to see her and the baby by still trying every once in a while to make a plan (knowing she may keep cancelling) or would you let her "steer the wheel" so to speak as she is not reliable and just accept I won't see them much at all?

[mrsmacgiver]

When she wants to see you, she will.

[bluebunnybabe]

I would just let her decide when she wants to see you.

[Traci_Momof2]

The ball is in her court.

[Anonymous 1]

Yeah, in reality there is nothing I can do to "force" the plan that she makes or that I try to make. Just sucks.

The ball is in her court.

[Anonymous 2]

Can you go to her house

[famousglm714]

I’d probably just leave her alone but I’m not really one to make an effort more than once.

[Anonymous 3]

I don't know how many times your cousin has to cancel on you or not choose you before you realize that she's just not that into you.

[Anonymous 1]

I would meet her wherever is good for her. But I am not going to just show up at her house unexpectedly.

Can you go to her house

[Anonymous 1]

She keeps me on a "string" by saying nice things every now and then. Just recently she said I was more like a sister to her than a cousin. So that's one reason for you.

I don't know how many times your cousin has to cancel on you or not choose you before you realize that she's just not that into you.