Helping family

[MonarchMom]

Doesn't the house belong to your boyfriend?

I've lived here for years now so legally I have some say even if it's just as a tenant

That's an interesting take on this. Do you pay rent? Do you have a lease? Not sure that you would have "rights" without those in place. Even if this is true, exactly how would you try and enforce the "legal rights" against your SO objection to bringing your family to stay in his house?

[Anonymous 6]

The law disagrees with that. By law she isn't a guest.

Disagree. She’s a guest.

It’s not her house, it’s her boyfriend’s.

She lives there, therefore it is her house as well. She can make decisions such as these just like he can.

[Anonymous 6]

Doesn't the house belong to your boyfriend?

I've lived here for years now so legally I have some say even if it's just as a tenant

That's an interesting take on this. Do you pay rent? Do you have a lease? Not sure that you would have "rights" without those in place. Even if this is true, exactly how would you try and enforce the "legal rights" against your SO objection to bringing your family to stay in his house?

If you receive mail and have lived there more than 30 days you are considered a resident and by law you cant be kicked out without being evicted.

[RealisticBeauty]

You need to get your SO onboard for this. I can’t believe the number of women that think it’s ok to do this if he objects, and I wonder how they would feel if their DHs let someone stay in their houses over their objections.

Why does one person overrule another? If my brother needed me, he’s my brother. Would come before any boyfriend or husband (Probably why I’m better off single)

I agree. My SO and his 2 siblings are not close because they were never taught to value family. Whenever they get around each other, they are talking major shit about the person who is not around them at the time. That would NEVER happen in my family.

[RealisticBeauty]

Doesn't the house belong to your boyfriend?

I've lived here for years now so legally I have some say even if it's just as a tenant

That's an interesting take on this. Do you pay rent? Do you have a lease? Not sure that you would have "rights" without those in place. Even if this is true, exactly how would you try and enforce the "legal rights" against your SO objection to bringing your family to stay in his house?

I don't pay rent because the house was paid for in full so he's not paying a mortgage but I do receive my mail here. I'm not trying to enforce anything on him, I will simply convince him to let them stay and deal with his bitching until they leave.

[RealisticBeauty]

I've lived here for years now so legally I have some say even if it's just as a tenant

That's an interesting take on this. Do you pay rent? Do you have a lease? Not sure that you would have "rights" without those in place. Even if this is true, exactly how would you try and enforce the "legal rights" against your SO objection to bringing your family to stay in his house?

If you receive mail and have lived there more than 30 days you are considered a resident and by law you cant be kicked out without being evicted.

Yup I recieve my mail here.

[Bubbs]

You need to get your SO onboard for this. I can’t believe the number of women that think it’s ok to do this if he objects, and I wonder how they would feel if their DHs let someone stay in their houses over their objections.

Why does one person overrule another? If my brother needed me, he’s my brother. Would come before any boyfriend or husband (Probably why I’m better off single)

I agree. My SO and his 2 siblings are not close because they were never taught to value family. Whenever they get around each other, they are talking major shit about the person who is not around them at the time. That would NEVER happen in my family.

Nope not in my family, either. We (the 4 siblings) don’t say stuff behind backs that we wouldn’t say to faces. If I know for sure 3 people in this world that would do anything for me. It’s my 3 brothers & they know that about me. It’s what we do, help each other.

[RealisticBeauty]

They dont know how much they make with their jobs? Thats the first question I ask when im offered a job. Your sugar daddy already said he didnt feel comfortable woth it. So the answer is no.

The answer isn't no if I don't want it to be no lol. it's the end of the month so most places aren't even renting until September first.

They should be accepting deposits and no. You dont get to tell someone who can stay in their home. You would be a shitty partner if you didnt listen to your so. 2 yes/1 no. And why are you telling lies about not using the upstairs...Isnt that where you hide in when the dog pisses and shits all over the floor instead of cleaning it up

I'm rarely up there is what I said.

[Bubbs]

Doesn't the house belong to your boyfriend?

I've lived here for years now so legally I have some say even if it's just as a tenant

That's an interesting take on this. Do you pay rent? Do you have a lease? Not sure that you would have "rights" without those in place. Even if this is true, exactly how would you try and enforce the "legal rights" against your SO objection to bringing your family to stay in his house?

I couldn’t make my ex leave, unless I evicted him. He wasn’t on the lease, but because he lived here for years. It was his legal residence. So even if he decided that she had to leave tomorrow, it’s not that easy.

[QuantumNursing]

The law disagrees with that. By law she isn't a guest.

Disagree. She’s a guest.

She lives there, therefore it is her house as well. She can make decisions such as these just like he can.

She is technically a tenet but that doesnt give the sole right to say who can live in the home. That would be up to the owner (landlord) so he has every rigjt to say no and he should say no. Especially since Realistic Beauty already said that it would affect his mental health