So apparently she wanted to know what the other side felt like.Anonymous 1 wrote: ↑Sun Apr 14, 2019 4:03 pmShe's a nurse at a prison. Yep.she's an idiotMistressMonster wrote: ↑Sun Apr 14, 2019 4:00 pm What is her job?
She's an igit for driving drunk FYI
I'm not bailing you out
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Speeding while committing the hit and run
I would bail someone out that didn’t have a history of drinking. This is exactly why I won’t have even a sip of alcohol if I need to drive my children anywhere. If you don’t often drink I would imagine two mimosas at a brunch could put you over the legal limit and you may not realize how much it effected you until it’s too late.CotterpinDoozer wrote: ↑Sun Apr 14, 2019 5:11 pm I'll never understand why someone would do something as stupid as drive drunk, then expect someone else to bail them out. Uh no, you were an idiot, you deserve whatever you get.
I don’t understand OP’s sentiment unless her mom has a history of alcohol abuse. I agree with you that you should support your loved ones unless there is a real reason not to.
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Right. There must be some bad feelings because your immediate reaction would be to go to your loved one and find out if she is ok, what happened, did something bad happen and that is why she was drinking. Weird to just say f**k you to your mother and let her rot.Anonymous 3 wrote: ↑Mon Apr 15, 2019 10:16 amI don’t understand OP’s sentiment unless her mom has a history of alcohol abuse. I agree with you that you should support your loved ones unless there is a real reason not to.
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I wouldn't bail someone out for a dui. My aunt was killed by a drink driver. I have no tolerance for it. That being said, I have one brother that drinks. No one else is the family does. It's not something I have ever been around.
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If she has a history of this kind of behavior I can understand the tough love approach of making her sort out bail on her own.
However, I wouldn't have so gleefully ratted her out to her employer, I'd have just called it in saying something like "She can't make it in and I don't feel comfortable telling you why. She'll call you as soon as she's able to explain."
However, I wouldn't have so gleefully ratted her out to her employer, I'd have just called it in saying something like "She can't make it in and I don't feel comfortable telling you why. She'll call you as soon as she's able to explain."
She is too fond of books and it has turned her brain.