That doesn’t mean the same applies to every single situation. Sometimes it’s not a possibility. I’m saying that IF it was possible for me to help, I would.
PoplarGrove wrote: ↑Mon May 29, 2023 1:59 pmMaybe she's better off financially than a lot of single mothers but for most parents with a deadbeat ex partner supporting their kids completely on their own means not investing in their own future. I know I've had to spend all my money on supporting my kids because their Dad doesn't pay and I haven't been able to put money away for retirement.Momto2boys973 wrote: ↑Mon May 29, 2023 12:37 pm Well, those kids are adults now. By OPs own words “the EXTRA money is NICE”. Personally, if it were me, I would give the money for the kids, because it’s not extra and just nice for them.
But yeah, they’re going to have to figure it because to each their own. As she said, it’s not her fault.
PoplarGrove wrote: ↑Mon May 29, 2023 12:14 pm
My heart goes out to the kids who are going to be homeless AND to the kids who had a deadbeat father and probably had to miss out on a lot of things growing up. The mom of these other kids is going to have to do what OP did and figure things out. This dude is obviously not going to figure anything out.