Boyfriend at kids sporting events.

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I wouldn't even listen to his opinion on the matter. As soon as he brings up his feelings I would hang up the phone. But you always indulge your ex so I'm not surprised at this post.
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I wouldn't have told dad to begin with. Boyfriend would come, sit with me and avoid sitting near dad, and that would be that.
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The sun isn’t bright here.....todayπŸ˜› It’s so gloomy out. I want the sun
Linda_Runs wrote: ↑Thu Apr 18, 2019 8:17 am
Anonymous 2 wrote: ↑Thu Apr 18, 2019 8:13 am
Linda_Runs wrote: ↑Thu Apr 18, 2019 8:10 am

My opinion varies a bit from yours. I believe that a boyfriend who is going to have a future relationship SHOULD be involved with the kids in stages. I wouldn't wait until I was married to find out that my man was not good with children.
I believe the same as you but many do but many here do not.
Totally agreed! But I could put a post about the sun being bright and at least one person would argue!
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I'd have told him I didn't care about his feelings and if he had a problem he could stay home.
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He wants to go in support of your kids and at their request. I think that's great, and speaks well of their budding relationship. Daddy is threatened by this, obviously. But he just needs to get over it. Offer him an antacid and ignore him after. Maybe the kids will see him acting a fool and call him out.
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I'd have told him to suck it up and deal with it!
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Tell your ex to grow up. It's essential your children build a relationship with your BF if you and he are going to be long-term.
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Linda_Runs wrote: ↑Thu Apr 18, 2019 8:17 am
Anonymous 2 wrote: ↑Thu Apr 18, 2019 8:13 am
Linda_Runs wrote: ↑Thu Apr 18, 2019 8:10 am

My opinion varies a bit from yours. I believe that a boyfriend who is going to have a future relationship SHOULD be involved with the kids in stages. I wouldn't wait until I was married to find out that my man was not good with children.
I believe the same as you but many do but many here do not.
Totally agreed! But I could put a post about the sun being bright and at least one person would argue!
🀣🀣🀣 Hilarious!

Very clever, and also very true.
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Anonymous 3 wrote: ↑Thu Apr 18, 2019 9:27 am The sun isn’t bright here.....todayπŸ˜› It’s so gloomy out. I want the sun
Linda_Runs wrote: ↑Thu Apr 18, 2019 8:17 am
Anonymous 2 wrote: ↑Thu Apr 18, 2019 8:13 am

I believe the same as you but many do but many here do not.
Totally agreed! But I could put a post about the sun being bright and at least one person would argue!
I just came from news and politics. Every time I go there I start thinking the sun going super nova might not be so bad. Lol
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Time to move on with your life, and stop telling your ex everything.

The boyfriend should go to the game if he wants to. Hopefully your ex won't have any crazy behavior that drives him away.
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