I’m scared
I’m always walking on eggshells. I hate this. I hate HIM! I’m stuck. The problem is it’s MY HOUSE. He relies on ME! I can’t just move out of my own house. He’s not physically abusing me. Everyone thinks he’s a great guy. Except the mental torture he puts me through. Its all the mental/emotional abuse. I have no proof. I’m stuck.
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Is he the father of your children?
Yes. I’m even more afraid of him getting visitation with them. He will do everything that I don’t want them doing just out of spite.
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Reach out to someone close to you so they can help, don't worry about being judged. Ever.Guest wrote: ↑Sat Jul 21, 2018 8:22 pmYes. I’m even more afraid of him getting visitation with them. He will do everything that I don’t want them doing just out of spite.
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I’d file for divorce. Hugs and good luck mama.
Wow, im so sorry. Is his name on the house? If not, can you evict him? Or are you too scared?
We are not legally married I will never marry him
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I’m not sure what your next step should be. I’m sorry and good luck.
The house is in a trust. I’m not even on it but it’s mine odd situation but the deeds in my family’s name and the trust is set up so I’m the beneficiary. I’m not sure the legal aspect of it but it’s my house. I picked it out the lawyer bought it with however the trust is set up.Reedusstalker wrote: ↑Sat Jul 21, 2018 8:51 pm Wow, im so sorry. Is his name on the house? If not, can you evict him? Or are you too scared?
Basically I’m too scared I have mental health issues and I’m afraid he will use it against me in court to try and get custody. Although without me he wouldn’t even have a car. Everything is in my name or through the trust. Plus everyone thinks we are happy. No one knows how he really is.
Vegaswife2011 wrote: ↑Sat Jul 21, 2018 8:52 pmI’m not sure what your next step should be. I’m sorry and good luck.
That’s my problem. I’m not even sure where to turn. He has no friends or family here and he drives one of my cars. It’s not like I can send him walking away with everything he owns. I’m contemplating talking to my lawyer about paying him a sum of money to move far away possibly the other side of the country. I’m not sure the money can be used like that.