I did see the signs which is how I knew and why I ended it. I vetted him for a while before we dated and then there was no problems for 8 years. I thought we had a great relationship and we were really excited to plan for our wedding. I thought we were the "perfect" happy couple finally getting married.RedBottoms wrote: ↑Sun Jul 08, 2018 1:29 pmYes, I would put a lot of blame on myself. For not seeing the signs. For not vetting him enough. For not working on my marriage more etc. And I would have considered putting the baby up for adoption as well so the baby could have a two parent stable home.Guest wrote: ↑Sun Jul 08, 2018 1:11 pmDo you really think you would have been the bad guy if your husband had cheated on you when you were pregnant?RedBottoms wrote: ↑Sun Jul 08, 2018 1:08 pm
3 years before marriage and did premarital counseling and we did not have kids till we were together 7 years
I was with my ex for 8 years before we got engaged. It was 9 years together when he cheated on me.
I would love to know how I am the bad guy because he cheated.
I was living in another country for this guy. There is no way I would have done that if there were any signs of a problem. As soon as it happened I was done and gone.
Bullshit that you would have put your kids up for adoption.
I would love for you to explain to me how I was the bad guy and what I did wrong.