perhaps I am the devil in heels

[RealisticBeauty]

Well the losers of MC will have a field day with this post as many of them have your life history memorized & will recite it to anyone who will listen.

I guess you're right. I've nothing to say except it makes not one bit of sense. Why would he leave his house and not return? Never mind I'm not sure I even want to know.

I don't know why he isn't returning or answering his phone

[MrsDavidB]

Wait. So you kicked your ex out of his OWN house? What kind of man allows a woman to kick him out so she can live there with a baby she has with someone else. . It's his place. LOL. Ridiculous. You have very lousy taste in picking men. And stop with the men. You need to find a place that has NOTHING to do with a man!

I told him to leave but I didn't expect him to stay gone. The house is in my name but he is the renter.

The renter? So he takes care of the 2 kids full time, no child support from you, AND pays you money monthly? What the hell. This cannot be real. I know some men are really dumb but come on.

[RealisticBeauty]

I left my my SO a week ago (long story). My ex allowed me to stay with him and our boys for a few weeks until I get my new place. He was generous enough to give me and my 1 year old ds the master bedroom. Everything was fine until the other night. Our 17 year old ds is constantly late for school this last month so we decided to make him go to bed at a set time. My solution was to set the wifi to 10pm to automatically turn off however his father wanted to just tell him to go to bed at 10 and hope he would listen. Around 12 the other night DS was still awake on his playstation and his dad went into his room very pissed off. He was yelling at ds to go to bed and DS was yelling back. At this point I got up and went in the room. My ex had pure anger in his eyes because ds was being very disrespectful. My boys are NEVER disrespectful but I guess DS snapped and both of their ego's were bruised. My Ex tackled DS to the floor and pinned his head down. DS started yelling and cursing and so did I. I told my ex to get the hell off of him and get out of here. He grabbed his keys. wallet and phone and I haven't heard from him since then. All I wanted was my own place with all of my kids under one roof, i never expected to get it this way. My ex is now homeless roaming the streets and my SO is going crazy alone by himself. I feel so guilty although none of this is my fault. I'm just trying to protect my kids. I can't help but think the baby that I'm pregnant with will come out with issues because this pregnancy has been nothing but stressful for me and she's taking in all the bad vibes.

You think your ex is just turning over the home he's raised your children in?

He's MIA so I don't know

[RealisticBeauty]

And why did you finally leave your SO? What was the last straw?

Its a long story but I left to protect my ds. He had one of his many meltdowns over some dumb shit and he totally checked out of parenting.

[Anonymous 3]

Wait. So you kicked your ex out of his OWN house? What kind of man allows a woman to kick him out so she can live there with a baby she has with someone else. . It's his place. LOL. Ridiculous. You have very lousy taste in picking men. And stop with the men. You need to find a place that has NOTHING to do with a man!

I told him to leave but I didn't expect him to stay gone. The house is in my name but he is the renter.

The renter? So he takes care of the 2 kids full time, no child support from you, AND pays you money monthly? What the hell. This cannot be real. I know some men are really dumb but come on.

He's probably just paying the mortgage so she doesn't lose the house.

[RealisticBeauty]

Wait. So you kicked your ex out of his OWN house? What kind of man allows a woman to kick him out so she can live there with a baby she has with someone else. . It's his place. LOL. Ridiculous. You have very lousy taste in picking men. And stop with the men. You need to find a place that has NOTHING to do with a man!

I told him to leave but I didn't expect him to stay gone. The house is in my name but he is the renter.

The renter? So he takes care of the 2 kids full time, no child support from you, AND pays you money monthly? What the hell. This cannot be real. I know some men are really dumb but come on.

It's real. I can't make this shit up. Thats why I'm wondering if it's my fault.

[Anonymous 3]

I left my my SO a week ago (long story). My ex allowed me to stay with him and our boys for a few weeks until I get my new place. He was generous enough to give me and my 1 year old ds the master bedroom. Everything was fine until the other night. Our 17 year old ds is constantly late for school this last month so we decided to make him go to bed at a set time. My solution was to set the wifi to 10pm to automatically turn off however his father wanted to just tell him to go to bed at 10 and hope he would listen. Around 12 the other night DS was still awake on his playstation and his dad went into his room very pissed off. He was yelling at ds to go to bed and DS was yelling back. At this point I got up and went in the room. My ex had pure anger in his eyes because ds was being very disrespectful. My boys are NEVER disrespectful but I guess DS snapped and both of their ego's were bruised. My Ex tackled DS to the floor and pinned his head down. DS started yelling and cursing and so did I. I told my ex to get the hell off of him and get out of here. He grabbed his keys. wallet and phone and I haven't heard from him since then. All I wanted was my own place with all of my kids under one roof, i never expected to get it this way. My ex is now homeless roaming the streets and my SO is going crazy alone by himself. I feel so guilty although none of this is my fault. I'm just trying to protect my kids. I can't help but think the baby that I'm pregnant with will come out with issues because this pregnancy has been nothing but stressful for me and she's taking in all the bad vibes.

You think your ex is just turning over the home he's raised your children in?

He's MIA so I don't know

Get ready to take care of all of your children, including the spoilt one, in that house on your own.

[Anonymous 1]

Your entire life is trash and it's clear that these kids do not have a good parent. It is sad you can't do anything on your own. It is sad you left your kids with an unfit parent. It is sad that you are bringing another child into the world when you aren't a good parent in the first place. The kids would be better off without you, your ex, or your other ex.

BTW he can come back anytime he wants. You can't just kick him out that way. How are you even going to pay the bills?

A good parent protect their kids at all cost

Maybe you should start doing that. You are not a good parent.

[Linda_Runs]

You have a bad situation here. This is a story I hear from time to time. You were right to kick your Ex out. Given the situation at that moment, he was probably better removed from the home. But parents have meltdowns too. Is there any place your Ex can go?

I do feel bad that you are going through this. No bashing from me!

[Vegaswife2011]

Oh jeez. As your world spins.