You all get blasted on this site good grief.
You're horrible if you want the kids to go on vacation, if you like them and if your dh doesn't adhere to bms every wish it's your fault.
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- MistressMonster
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I think a lot of it is made up drama for the sake of drama. Or I just got lucky being a SM.Anonymous 1 wrote: ↑Wed Dec 04, 2019 11:18 pm You all get blasted on this site good grief.
You're horrible if you want the kids to go on vacation, if you like them and if your dh doesn't adhere to bms every wish it's your fault.
The oranges of the island are like blazing fire
Amongst the emerald boughs
And the lemons are like the paleness of a lover
Who has spent the night crying.
My soul was ripped to shreds on 10/27/14
Amongst the emerald boughs
And the lemons are like the paleness of a lover
Who has spent the night crying.
My soul was ripped to shreds on 10/27/14
Idk I've known people irl that have custody issues and other blended family issues.MistressMonster wrote: ↑Wed Dec 04, 2019 11:24 pmI think a lot of it is made up drama for the sake of drama. Or I just got lucky being a SM.Anonymous 1 wrote: ↑Wed Dec 04, 2019 11:18 pm You all get blasted on this site good grief.
You're horrible if you want the kids to go on vacation, if you like them and if your dh doesn't adhere to bms every wish it's your fault.
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Eh. I never fully decided whether I want to believe that 98% of these big dramatic stories are made up, or I just got exceptionally lucky being a stepmother. We don't have all this drama and brewing resentment and crap. We have a dynamic that works for us and that's just that.
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I'm a step mom and a bio mom. BM's get it, too. Really, everyone is just ridiculous and too wrapped up in themselves. My husband's ex wife hates me but I'm always trying to find middle ground. And, I accept that there isn't much I can do aside from doing my best.
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I'm just really glad that I'm not in any sort of step situation. I know they aren't all bad, but I'm glad I don't even have to spin the wheel of chance. But honestly when reading the stories in here (which I only believe half if that are true) I actually tend to be harder on the BM than anyone else. I don't subscribe to this notion that BM is the Queen who always knows what's right. That comes from my own Mother who I feel made many mistakes in her divorce from my dad and her subsequent relationships and how it all affected my sister and myself. I will admit I have a definite bias against divorced and remarried biomoms.
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I'm a biomom and a step mom and most of the time all the drama is about people not being reasonable and forgetting the important people in this whole mess are the kids.