What would you say to someone who says

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That they have issues and I don’t want to be people who have issues with forming healthy relationships.
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Olioxenfree wrote: Sun Nov 10, 2019 6:54 pm
AllofFive19 wrote: Sun Nov 10, 2019 12:27 pm Then you don't really love me. You cant have love without trust. At most they really like me and lust after me, but that's not love.
That isn't true. My husband loves his dad, but he doesn't trust him.
I was thinking more along the lines of a partner vs family member. In that case you dont have to have trust in your parents, it's nice, but not necessary.
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Olioxenfree wrote: Sun Nov 10, 2019 6:53 pm "I am sorry. What can I do to help you trust me?"
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I’d say “same.”
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If it's someone I'm dating, I seriously consider whether or not I want to continue dating the person.

If it's just someone I know, I keep it in mind.

In both instances, I'd suggest to the person that they get counseling for it.
Anonymous 1 wrote: Sun Nov 10, 2019 11:33 am I love you but I don’t trust anyone ?
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Stop being dramatic.
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You can't truly love someone if you can't trust them.
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That would make me distance myself from that person.
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I'd distance myself. In my personal experience, nearly every person I've known who has said something like that, it's because they are untrustworthy and they're projecting. I don't play those games.
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