I must be ugly
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Princess Royal
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- Princess
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That's your choice. You dont have to date anyone you don't want to. But, it is the definition of shallow.Anonymous 1 wrote: ↑Fri Oct 25, 2019 3:32 pmBecause I don’t want to get to a man I don’t find attractive lol so I should give unattractive men a chance so I’m not shallow? f**k thatOlioxenfree wrote: ↑Fri Oct 25, 2019 2:58 pmYou just met these people, you know zero about them and are judging them solely by how they look. That is the definition of shallow.Anonymous 1 wrote: ↑Fri Oct 25, 2019 1:35 pm It’s shallow not to want someone you aren’t attracted to?
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- Princess
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Plenty of people care about personality over looks. Otherwise only attractive people would ever have kids. I find my husband attractive, but that isn't why I married him. I dated guys just as physically attractive in the past and some who weren't great looking, but were nice guys. In my opinion being emotionally attracted to someone is more important than being physically attracted to them.Traci_Momof2 wrote: ↑Fri Oct 25, 2019 3:36 pmBut don't we all do that basically? When first meeting someone, the only thing we do have to make a judgement on is their physical attractiveness. Then as we get to know them we gain other stuff to judge them on. But when meeting someone to be a potential mate, physical attractiveness is important. Because if their face is a bit of a turn-off across the table over coffee, it's not going to get any better when it's on the pillow next to you.Olioxenfree wrote: ↑Fri Oct 25, 2019 2:58 pmYou just met these people, you know zero about them and are judging them solely by how they look. That is the definition of shallow.Anonymous 1 wrote: ↑Fri Oct 25, 2019 1:35 pm It’s shallow not to want someone you aren’t attracted to?
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- Regent
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So have you tried to approach the men that you find attractive or do you just sit there and fend off ugly guys?
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- Princess Royal
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What about waiting until they find someone whom they find physically, intellectually and emotionally attractive?Olioxenfree wrote: ↑Fri Oct 25, 2019 3:48 pmPlenty of people care about personality over looks. Otherwise only attractive people would ever have kids. I find my husband attractive, but that isn't why I married him. I dated guys just as physically attractive in the past and some who weren't great looking, but were nice guys. In my opinion being emotionally attracted to someone is more important than being physically attracted to them.Traci_Momof2 wrote: ↑Fri Oct 25, 2019 3:36 pmBut don't we all do that basically? When first meeting someone, the only thing we do have to make a judgement on is their physical attractiveness. Then as we get to know them we gain other stuff to judge them on. But when meeting someone to be a potential mate, physical attractiveness is important. Because if their face is a bit of a turn-off across the table over coffee, it's not going to get any better when it's on the pillow next to you.Olioxenfree wrote: ↑Fri Oct 25, 2019 2:58 pm
You just met these people, you know zero about them and are judging them solely by how they look. That is the definition of shallow.
Why settle?
Honey, I'm the original one-eyed chicklet in the kingdom of the blind, 'cause at least I admit the world makes me nuts.