And it is my second one without my mom and dad. I was so not feeling up days leading up to it. Yesterday was a pretty good day. It stormed, which it always does on my birthday so my husband had a rain day and was home. My BM and one of my brothers came over. They brought me coffee and donuts and a card. We got a package from a friend in Leeds. She sent me crumpets because I always wanted to try them.
I spent the day on the couch, reading Salem's Lot, watching a new zombie movie I had bought and just relaxed. It was just how I wanted it. Today, though, I am struggling. I just feel blah.
Well, yesterday was my birthday
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Happy Late Birthday.
My mom died in 2012 3 days before my birthday.
Not a day goes by that i do not miss her.
My mom died in 2012 3 days before my birthday.
Not a day goes by that i do not miss her.
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Happy late birthday. I am sorry for your losses. I hope you are doing better today.
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I just saw this now. Happy belated birthday. It's really hard going through birthdays not long after a parent(s) have passed. I went through that with both my parents when I was a teen and then again in my 20's. I still miss them very much and still wish they could help me celebrate my birthday. I do have very nice memories and that helps.Reedusstalker wrote: ↑Thu Jun 28, 2018 9:42 am And it is my second one without my mom and dad. I was so not feeling up days leading up to it. Yesterday was a pretty good day. It stormed, which it always does on my birthday so my husband had a rain day and was home. My BM and one of my brothers came over. They brought me coffee and donuts and a card. We got a package from a friend in Leeds. She sent me crumpets because I always wanted to try them.
I spent the day on the couch, reading Salem's Lot, watching a new zombie movie I had bought and just relaxed. It was just how I wanted it. Today, though, I am struggling. I just feel blah.
It sounds like you had a very nice birthday and were able to share it with those close to you. How were the crumpets? I heard of them, but never had them either. I think it's understandable that you felt blah the following day. Grieving takes time and it's still fairly recent losses. Big hugs.