Learn how to parent BM and stop calling all the time

[Guest]

That is truly awful she expects him to be an involved parent even though they're divorced.

He is an involved parent by taking care of the kids 100% on HIS custody time

Good parents still parent their children even when it's not their custodial time.

So does that mean BM is not a good parent because she never parents her kids on her time or on DHs?

[WickedPissah]

not true. My BFF is co parenting with her ex and probably not once has she called him during her custody time telling him her son was acting up. She just deals with it herself. She actually gets annoyed when he calls her for stupid shit during his custody time he could have handled himself.

It's amazing how you always have a "friend" that's the exception to the rule.

lol its honestly how every divorced parent I know acts. Except my mom. She would call my Dad up and bitch at him about me. But most divorced parents I know don't do that. It shows maturity if you ask me

You certainly have a fucked up life. Didn't your dad abuse you or something?

[WickedPissah]

It's amazing how you always have a "friend" that's the exception to the rule.

Spot on.

yep. When you have a lot of friends, chances are-one of them might have similarities. #popularpersonproblem I suppose

There you go hallucinating again. Lol

[RedBottoms]

Spot on.

yep. When you have a lot of friends, chances are-one of them might have similarities. #popularpersonproblem I suppose

There you go hallucinating again. Lol

Yep, you are right. I didn't go out to lunch with a friend on Friday nor did I go out to dinner with a friend last night. All in my head.

[RedBottoms]

It's amazing how you always have a "friend" that's the exception to the rule.

lol its honestly how every divorced parent I know acts. Except my mom. She would call my Dad up and bitch at him about me. But most divorced parents I know don't do that. It shows maturity if you ask me

You certainly have a fucked up life. Didn't your dad abuse you or something?

Had a fucked up life-agreed. Yes, my father was abusive. I have cut him off. Now everything is great. Amazing husband that just took a week off of work to redo our master bathroom exactly how I wanted it. Kids I love. Lots of friends I love. Money to buy mostly what I want minus super expensive things.

I mean my husband is kinda perfect. This man taught himself how to do this.

but thanks for trying to use my abusive father to insult me. I mean if that is all you can get to use against me-I must be doing pretty well

[WickedPissah]

yep. When you have a lot of friends, chances are-one of them might have similarities. #popularpersonproblem I suppose

There you go hallucinating again. Lol

Yep, you are right. I didn't go out to lunch with a friend on Friday nor did I go out to dinner with a friend last night. All in my head.

We already know your head is fucked up.

[RedBottoms]

There you go hallucinating again. Lol

Yep, you are right. I didn't go out to lunch with a friend on Friday nor did I go out to dinner with a friend last night. All in my head.

We already know your head is fucked up.

I did not realize you spoke for the entire board. You sure have a big ego

[Guest]

lol its honestly how every divorced parent I know acts. Except my mom. She would call my Dad up and bitch at him about me. But most divorced parents I know don't do that. It shows maturity if you ask me

You certainly have a fucked up life. Didn't your dad abuse you or something?

Had a fucked up life-agreed. Yes, my father was abusive. I have cut him off. Now everything is great. Amazing husband that just took a week off of work to redo our master bathroom exactly how I wanted it. Kids I love. Lots of friends I love. Money to buy mostly what I want minus super expensive things.

I mean my husband is kinda perfect. This man taught himself how to do this.

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but thanks for trying to use my abusive father to insult me. I mean if that is all you can get to use against me-I must be doing pretty well

It took your husband a week to do that? How slow is he? I redid my kids bathroom that is about that size and it took me two days but only because it took a day for the tile to be set and grouted. Everything else was done the second day. If I had not redone the tile I would have been able to do the whole thing in less than a day

[WickedPissah]

lol its honestly how every divorced parent I know acts. Except my mom. She would call my Dad up and bitch at him about me. But most divorced parents I know don't do that. It shows maturity if you ask me

You certainly have a fucked up life. Didn't your dad abuse you or something?

Had a fucked up life-agreed. Yes, my father was abusive. I have cut him off. Now everything is great. Amazing husband that just took a week off of work to redo our master bathroom exactly how I wanted it. Kids I love. Lots of friends I love. Money to buy mostly what I want minus super expensive things.

I mean my husband is kinda perfect. This man taught himself how to do this.

36063676_10214721165116954_1739829206512041984_n.jpg

but thanks for trying to use my abusive father to insult me. I mean if that is all you can get to use against me-I must be doing pretty well

Both of them are fucked up. Why would a mom contact a man that abused her kid?

You've been in therapy your whole entire life. That's not normal. It's unhealthy.

[RedBottoms]

You certainly have a fucked up life. Didn't your dad abuse you or something?

Had a fucked up life-agreed. Yes, my father was abusive. I have cut him off. Now everything is great. Amazing husband that just took a week off of work to redo our master bathroom exactly how I wanted it. Kids I love. Lots of friends I love. Money to buy mostly what I want minus super expensive things.

I mean my husband is kinda perfect. This man taught himself how to do this.

36063676_10214721165116954_1739829206512041984_n.jpg

but thanks for trying to use my abusive father to insult me. I mean if that is all you can get to use against me-I must be doing pretty well

It took your husband a week to do that? How slow is he? I redid my kids bathroom that is about that size and it took me two days but only because it took a day for the tile to be set and grouted. Everything else was done the second day. If I had not redone the tile I would have been able to do the whole thing in less than a day

Paint has to dry before you put more coats on.

But he also took breaks to spend time with me and dentist appointments and shopping etc. Took him about 5 days.

I don't care how long it took-it looks amazing and he saved us several thousand dollars for not having to pay someone to do it. I can use that money to buy shoes now.