Forget your anon? Hmm.Yoloo wrote: ↑Sat Jun 15, 2019 5:29 pmShe was not expecting it because it is not the norm for a baby at that agePinkMartini wrote: ↑Sat Jun 15, 2019 5:27 pmI would expect a judge to award 50/50 custody to the father, if he wanted it. Gone are the days were the mother automatically received primary custody, and the dad received every other weekend. Frankly, she should have expected this.Anonymous 1 wrote: ↑Sat Jun 15, 2019 5:05 pm
The judge ordered 50/50 custody for a 3 week old baby
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Nope just commenting. 50/50 for a 3 week old baby is not the normMrsDavidB wrote: ↑Sat Jun 15, 2019 5:32 pmForget your anon? Hmm.Yoloo wrote: ↑Sat Jun 15, 2019 5:29 pmShe was not expecting it because it is not the norm for a baby at that agePinkMartini wrote: ↑Sat Jun 15, 2019 5:27 pm
I would expect a judge to award 50/50 custody to the father, if he wanted it. Gone are the days were the mother automatically received primary custody, and the dad received every other weekend. Frankly, she should have expected this.
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Why would it not be?Yoloo wrote: ↑Sat Jun 15, 2019 5:29 pmShe was not expecting it because it is not the norm for a baby at that agePinkMartini wrote: ↑Sat Jun 15, 2019 5:27 pmI would expect a judge to award 50/50 custody to the father, if he wanted it. Gone are the days were the mother automatically received primary custody, and the dad received every other weekend. Frankly, she should have expected this.Anonymous 1 wrote: ↑Sat Jun 15, 2019 5:05 pm
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Do you live under a rock? Do you honestly think it is the norm for custody to be 50/50 from just after birth?PinkMartini wrote: ↑Sat Jun 15, 2019 5:40 pmWhy would it not be?Yoloo wrote: ↑Sat Jun 15, 2019 5:29 pmShe was not expecting it because it is not the norm for a baby at that agePinkMartini wrote: ↑Sat Jun 15, 2019 5:27 pm
I would expect a judge to award 50/50 custody to the father, if he wanted it. Gone are the days were the mother automatically received primary custody, and the dad received every other weekend. Frankly, she should have expected this.
It isnt good for a baby to be passed around like a hot potato
Olioxenfree wrote: ↑Sat Jun 15, 2019 5:32 pm It's not ideal, but he's equally the babies parent. Imagine if your daughter was told she could only see her baby on weekends. It's only fair.
The only thing that matters is what's fair for the baby. Babies need consistency and security instead of being bounced back and forth between homes and parents.
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How would you know she wasn’t expecting it? Do either of them work? Unless they are both home full time someone else is watching the baby.
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That is odd considering she's breastfeeding
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The baby will be fine. They are going every other week between two people, not a new person everyday. Lots of babies go to daycare and go between the center and their home and are all fine.Anonymous 3 wrote: ↑Sat Jun 15, 2019 5:43 pmOlioxenfree wrote: ↑Sat Jun 15, 2019 5:32 pm It's not ideal, but he's equally the babies parent. Imagine if your daughter was told she could only see her baby on weekends. It's only fair.
The only thing that matters is what's fair for the baby. Babies need consistency and security instead of being bounced back and forth between homes and parents.
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She can pump