This is good! I agree!Baconqueen13 wrote: ↑Sun Mar 24, 2019 9:29 amJust an offhand remark about how people use anon with controversial topics because they don't want to be judged or seen in a negative manner. I simply don't care what others think in regards to my opinion on topics. I know I'm right. I agree though that ODD and in some cases even ADD or ADHD are grossly overdiagnosed or even misdiagnosed due to parent's refusal to see themselves as part of the problem. I feel there's been a lot of pressure put on Dr's as well to give out those diagnoses as well over the last however many years. Of course because they have to be professionals they can't come out and say "Your kid has behavior problems because you're failing as a parent to set boundaries. stability, or discipline in an appropriate manner." So it's a diagnosis which the parent then goes to look for medications to treat rather than take accountability. Again this doesn't apply to children with other issues such as Autism etc where ODD is a symptom of the disease.Anonymous 2 wrote: ↑Sun Mar 24, 2019 9:16 amBaconqueen13 wrote: ↑Sun Mar 24, 2019 9:09 am
I said it on CM too, Under my name. The difference is I didn't care when people tried to rip me to shreds. It simply told me what kind of parents they were.
I never used my sn on cm because I stupidly put too much personally identifying info in it. I dont use anon all the time here but I did in this post in case anything personal came up for me in it. I like my privacy just in case anyone in my real life ever finds this site. I'm not really sure what your point about not being anon is.
My sd had diagnoses of ODD and ADHD when she came to live with us. That was 10 years ago. We took her off the meds and gave her some discipline, stability, and a routine and that's what she really needed. Of course she doesn't have those diagnoses anymore. I don't think all kids with these kinds of issues have bad parents, but I think that's part of the problem for many.
It's just ironic to me that so many people here the word of the doctor is straight from the mouth of god unless it doesn't fit the narrative they want. Then no doctor could have possibly told me those things.
I think doctors should actually tell parents if they’re the ones creating the ODD behavior in their kids instead of “tip-toeing” around the truth. (Parents often do think it’s easier to get a pill for their kids)