My ex tries to ruin things when I date.
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and also sounds like your kids need some counseling too -- in order to learn how to live with parents like they have
I went to a therapist for 3 years. I’ve known this about myself. It’s not an excuse for myself. I work on it everyday.scemily526 wrote: ↑Wed Jan 09, 2019 8:30 amis that supposed to be some kind of excuse for how you behave? if so, your therapist is doing a very poor job of teaching you anything or even counseling you on your life
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sounds like you need to go back to someone different that will actually help you and your kidsAnonymous 3 wrote: ↑Wed Jan 09, 2019 8:35 amI went to a therapist for 3 years. I’ve known this about myself. It’s not an excuse for myself. I work on it everyday.scemily526 wrote: ↑Wed Jan 09, 2019 8:30 amis that supposed to be some kind of excuse for how you behave? if so, your therapist is doing a very poor job of teaching you anything or even counseling you on your life
A counselor?Anonymous 3 wrote: ↑Wed Jan 09, 2019 8:35 amI went to a therapist for 3 years. I’ve known this about myself. It’s not an excuse for myself. I work on it everyday.scemily526 wrote: ↑Wed Jan 09, 2019 8:30 amis that supposed to be some kind of excuse for how you behave? if so, your therapist is doing a very poor job of teaching you anything or even counseling you on your life
A behavioural therapist?
A psycologist?
A psychiatrist?
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There's a simple solution to this but I have a feeling that you are the type to make excuses for everything.
I didn’t involve him. We have 3 kids together. I can’t change that. If you’ve never had to deal with this type of situation then your lucky. I try my best not to engage with him. Like when we had sports practice for the kids. I take them but he shows up. He tries to talk to me. I sit far away from him and I avoid him. I admit I have issues. I do my best.
Please have compassion. If not for me just have compsssion in your life.
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"Empath" seems to be the trendy new thing where I am. And also doesnt seem to be an accurate description of anyone who's claimed the label that I know.