I remember when my ODS and my ODD used to fight like cats and dogs. My ODD was a real bitch to her brother and always was provoking him and just being mean. ODS has a personality disorder so he used to always hit first and ask questions later. It got to the point they both were always punished. Thankfully now that they are older they actually get along and do things together lol It's strange because they used to fight all the time and now they are each other's best friends in the whole world
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I never thought it fair to punish only one of them when they both were responsible.
What's your go to method?