for a long time.
I've noticed that when I am single, I have a ton of personal growth, and it slams to a halt when I'm in a relationship.
I'm actually super glad my SO is 3000km away and we only see each other a few days of the month - if he was here full time, my world would revolve around him and I wouldn't be doing all the things I'm doing now.
you don't need a man to validate your existence, revel in being single and enjoy being alone and just focus on yourself and the kids
Guest wrote: ↑Tue Oct 09, 2018 3:17 pm Just take your time the next time you meet someone. You jumped into marriage way too fast last time. He was basically a rebound. Play it slow next time and you'll be okay.
Bubbs wrote: ↑Tue Oct 09, 2018 10:38 amI did say that last time & I thought that him being in my life exactly when he was was supposed to be. I now know better. It is true that I don’t know what the future holds, my friends say the same thing. Unless I can get to a point where I trust myself & then in turn can trust others. I shouldn’t inflict myself on anyone else.Guest wrote: ↑Tue Oct 09, 2018 9:36 am You said that last time, too.
Instead of making definitive statements about the future, maybe just focus on the right-now. You never know what the future holds
Right now I can’t see myself trusting anyone not after the hell I’ve been through, twice.