What is up with my friends and family talking about my “next” relationship, while in the middle of a divorce?

[Lilysma719]

Didnt she get narried last year?

Bubbs?

2 years ago
And I fucked up. I married a narcissist who knew exactly how to tell me what I wanted to hear and give me everything I thought I was missing in my first marriage. I fell fast and hard and didn’t pay attention to red flags because I’ve known him forever.

So instead of letting myself and my kids continue to be punished for a mistake I made. I’m getting out before what we have went through gets worse.

I’m embarrassed and ashamed and feeling very very dumb used manipulated
I could make a post but does anyone really care except to try to make me feel worse than I already do?

Ignore that anon. I think it takes a special kind of jerk to kick someone while they're down. A person happy with life and their choices doesn't do that. Hugs. You'll get through this.

[Bubbs]

Didnt she get narried last year?

2 years ago
And I fucked up. I married a narcissist who knew exactly how to tell me what I wanted to hear and give me everything I thought I was missing in my first marriage. I fell fast and hard and didn’t pay attention to red flags because I’ve known him forever.

So instead of letting myself and my kids continue to be punished for a mistake I made. I’m getting out before what we have went through gets worse.

I’m embarrassed and ashamed and feeling very very dumb used manipulated
I could make a post but does anyone really care except to try to make me feel worse than I already do?

Ignore that anon. I think it takes a special kind of jerk to kick someone while they're down. A person happy with life and their choices doesn't do that. Hugs. You'll get through this.

Thanks. I don’t think anyone can kick me as much as I’m kicking myself. I’ll be ok. It just takes time

[mojogirl]

don't blame you one bit. divorced 2 years, separated 3. i still have no desire to be in any sort of relationship with anyone. and honestly, after 16 years of marriage, i'm not sure i'll ever be. and that's totally ok.

[Anon]

I was just asking because I knew you recently got married, I just wasn't sure exactly when. I didn't really think this was about you
I'm sorry you are going through this but at least you found out now that he's an asshole. You have absolutely no reason to feel embarrassed or ashamed, you are smart enough to not to continue with this crap. Good luck

Didnt she get narried last year?

Bubbs?

2 years ago
And I fucked up. I married a narcissist who knew exactly how to tell me what I wanted to hear and give me everything I thought I was missing in my first marriage. I fell fast and hard and didn’t pay attention to red flags because I’ve known him forever.

So instead of letting myself and my kids continue to be punished for a mistake I made. I’m getting out before what we have went through gets worse.

I’m embarrassed and ashamed and feeling very very dumb used manipulated
I could make a post but does anyone really care except to try to make me feel worse than I already do?

[Anon]

f**k off I wasn't being rude, I simply asked a question. But I've seen you reply many many times that were rude, ugly, hateful and offensive.

Didnt she get narried last year?

2 years ago
And I fucked up. I married a narcissist who knew exactly how to tell me what I wanted to hear and give me everything I thought I was missing in my first marriage. I fell fast and hard and didn’t pay attention to red flags because I’ve known him forever.

So instead of letting myself and my kids continue to be punished for a mistake I made. I’m getting out before what we have went through gets worse.

I’m embarrassed and ashamed and feeling very very dumb used manipulated
I could make a post but does anyone really care except to try to make me feel worse than I already do?

Ignore that anon. I think it takes a special kind of jerk to kick someone while they're down. A person happy with life and their choices doesn't do that. Hugs. You'll get through this.

[Deleted User 670]

Tell everyone to mind their own damn business.