What day would you consider it?

[BlueberryMuffin]

My beloved grandpa died on Memorial Day last year, so it’s been almost a year. I plan to go to the va cemetery Monday and see his grave and I didn’t plan ahead and ask off the day after. I also didn’t realize it was next week.

So from here on out would you just use Memorial Day as the day to go see his grave and mourn him or would you actually go by the date?

Of course I know it’s a personal decision and all.

[carterscutie85]

I would use the actual day.

[Lucky2BeeMe]

Memorial Day unless his grave was real close .

[admin]

I would use the same day, yea.

[BlueberryMuffin]

Memorial Day unless his grave was real close .

It’s on the north side of town 45-60 min away. So not incredibly close but not too too far either

[AubreeGrace17]

I would base it on the anniversary date. If you can not make it, I'm sure he would have understood.

[kmakksmom]

I would go by the actual date.

[Fullxbusymom]

I would go on Memorial Day.

[Cna3]

I don’t go to grave sites it just makes me cry

[BlueberryMuffin]

I don’t go to grave sites it just makes me cry

My pawpaw was a proud Texan and American. I go to put flags on his grave.