I'm the worst person in the world because I won't date a guy in a wheelchair

[Anonymous 1]

I was set up on a blind date. The guy seemed great but he was in a wheelchair. For me that is just not something that I can get past. I am a very active person and a lot of stuff I do is just not possible from a wheel chair, even the nice high tech ones. I spend most of my extra time doing some activity or another.

I told my friend I wanted someone to be able to challenge me to do better both mentally and physically. She just focused on the first part.

The guy seemed nice but even he admitted he didn't do much to stay active. The date was nice but it won't happen again.

My friend asked me what the problem is. She then proceeded to tell me I was being horrible and discriminatory and an abelist. I told her that there is nothing wrong with finding someone who I am compatible with.

If I was with someone who I loved and there was an accident I would stay with them but that is very different going into a relationship knowing that I will lose out on things I want.

[mater-three]

I believe my life is refreshingly boring. That is all.

[Anonymous 2]

I've read this before.

[carterscutie85]

I wouldn't date a guy in a wheelchair and I'm not particularly active lol.

[Just-mom]

Is it just me or are a bunch of the post just recycled old posts from before... They all seem so familiar.

[Inmybizz]

CM redo.

[jas]

This was done before and again - no one cares.

[SouthernIslander]

I read this one before too…

[Quorra2.0]

I believe my life is refreshingly boring. That is all.

I doubt that, I just find it hard to believe anyone’s life is boring.

I find my life refreshingly entertaining. I can always amuse myself now whether my life would amuse or entertain anyone else, that’s a different story

[Pjmm]

I've read this before.

Yep Word for word. But I’ll play. You’d be surprised what a person with disabilities can do. Unless the man was dependent and needed a lot of care I wouldn’t dismiss him just for a disability. But what the heck ever. Not my problem.