I like them as people and I enjoy spending time with them but I don't love them. Maybe one day I will get there but who knows. I treat them with kindness and respect. I help them when needed. I'll do anything for them but I don't actually love them.
That is my confession.
I don't love my step kids
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I don't think anyone would blame you for that. Love is not instantaneous in these situations. It takes time. If you like them and enjoy them now, then it will likely grow to caring about them and then eventually grow to loving them. Especially if they show you kindness and respect in return.
Don't sweat it.
Don't sweat it.
Strangely, I have love for my step daughter. But I don't like her as a person. She's a mean spirited person who, over the years, has sucked the life out of me.
Anonymous 1 wrote: ↑Thu Aug 06, 2020 6:04 pm I like them as people and I enjoy spending time with them but I don't love them. Maybe one day I will get there but who knows. I treat them with kindness and respect. I help them when needed. I'll do anything for them but I don't actually love them.
That is my confession.
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- Princess Royal
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I didn't love my exes dd.
It's all good.
It's all good.
I shit glitter
I don't know if you'd call it love but I care for mine and would kill anyone who messed with them. But I definitely don't feel the same way that I do about my kids.
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How old are your step kids and how long have you been in their lives?