Do you love your kids unconditionally?

[CherryTreez]

I will always love my kids. I may not always like them. I will disagree with their life choices. I know this and hopefully they will know it too. BUT no matter what I will always love them and be there if they need me.

[mater-three]

Uh, ok? Feel free to not read or reply.

I could say the same about you. We each made a choice and we were both free to follow through with that choice.

I am giving you a hug even though you can’t feel it. I remember why you would hate a post like this, but remember how strong you are. You should feel extremely proud of yourself.

Thank you. I don’t know what I did to anon 2, but she is forever following me around exclaiming things that are simply not true. I’m not messed up in the head; I just hate posts where people talk about their abusive parents. It makes me sad for the poster and the others that post in it. It amazes how the op and others would take that as messed up instead of realizing I hate this type of post because of my compassion and my complete and utter ability to relate. I don’t have to detail my own circumstances to do that, and I don’t deserve to be attacked for it. I guess that regardless of what I say in these types of posts they’ll find a way to try and bring me down. I didn’t even say anything bad or distressing and they still attacked me. Sigh whatever I guess. I appreciate those who get it. Hugs back to you.

[mater-three]

Uh, ok? Feel free to not read or reply.

I could say the same about you. We each made a choice and we were both free to follow through with that choice.

Wtf lol. I don’t get what your issue is.

Did you ever consider that I hate these types of posts because I hate hearing about mentally abusive parents-because it hurts my heart? Did you ever consider that regardless of what I say that’ll I’ll always be attacked by that poster - the one who makes untrue remarks about my mental health? Did you ever consider that I can relate to you? Did you ever consider that I tried to make this post a place for you and for you to vent? And, did you once consider that I planned on commenting later when I was in a better place to do so? Have I ever once attacked someone for making a legitimate post? Have I ever been less than understanding and compassionate? No, I haven’t. I hate that your parents even considered saying such a thing to you. I hate that I know how that feels. I do have the right to post here. I will continue to do so.

Ps. Having DID-nos, doesn’t make me fucked in the head; my way of coping helped me survive a horrible situation makes me strong, smart, and compassionate.

[Anonymous 2]

I could say the same about you. We each made a choice and we were both free to follow through with that choice.

I am giving you a hug even though you can’t feel it. I remember why you would hate a post like this, but remember how strong you are. You should feel extremely proud of yourself.

Thank you. I don’t know what I did to anon 2, but she is forever following me around exclaiming things that are simply not true. I’m not messed up in the head; I just hate posts where people talk about their abusive parents. It makes me sad for the poster and the others that post in it. It amazes how the op and others would take that as messed up instead of realizing I hate this type of post because of my compassion and my complete and utter ability to relate. I don’t have to detail my own circumstances to do that, and I don’t deserve to be attacked for it. I guess that regardless of what I say in these types of posts they’ll find a way to try and bring me down. I didn’t even say anything bad or distressing and they still attacked me. Sigh whatever I guess. I appreciate those who get it. Hugs back to you.

This is the first time I have ever said anything about you. Your brain is broken you can deny it but that doesn't change facts.

[mater-three]

I am giving you a hug even though you can’t feel it. I remember why you would hate a post like this, but remember how strong you are. You should feel extremely proud of yourself.

Thank you. I don’t know what I did to anon 2, but she is forever following me around exclaiming things that are simply not true. I’m not messed up in the head; I just hate posts where people talk about their abusive parents. It makes me sad for the poster and the others that post in it. It amazes how the op and others would take that as messed up instead of realizing I hate this type of post because of my compassion and my complete and utter ability to relate. I don’t have to detail my own circumstances to do that, and I don’t deserve to be attacked for it. I guess that regardless of what I say in these types of posts they’ll find a way to try and bring me down. I didn’t even say anything bad or distressing and they still attacked me. Sigh whatever I guess. I appreciate those who get it. Hugs back to you.

This is the first time I have ever said anything about you. Your brain is broken you can deny it but that doesn't change facts.

There’s nothing wrong with my brain. I’m a strong, intelligent, compassionate woman who has lived through a unimaginable traumatic situation. I’ve also raised 3 functional, intelligent, and wonderfully adapted kids. A person who lived through what I have and can do that is far from broken. You can assume what you please; your opinion matters very little to me.

[Vegaswife2011]

Yes. I won’t always like what they do but I will always love them.

[Anonymous 2]

Thank you. I don’t know what I did to anon 2, but she is forever following me around exclaiming things that are simply not true. I’m not messed up in the head; I just hate posts where people talk about their abusive parents. It makes me sad for the poster and the others that post in it. It amazes how the op and others would take that as messed up instead of realizing I hate this type of post because of my compassion and my complete and utter ability to relate. I don’t have to detail my own circumstances to do that, and I don’t deserve to be attacked for it. I guess that regardless of what I say in these types of posts they’ll find a way to try and bring me down. I didn’t even say anything bad or distressing and they still attacked me. Sigh whatever I guess. I appreciate those who get it. Hugs back to you.

This is the first time I have ever said anything about you. Your brain is broken you can deny it but that doesn't change facts.

There’s nothing wrong with my brain. I’m a strong, intelligent, compassionate woman who has lived through a unimaginable traumatic situation. I’ve also raised 3 functional, intelligent, and wonderfully adapted kids. A person who lived through what I have and can do that is far from broken. You can assume what you please; your opinion matters very little to me.

You can have a broken brain and still be those things. If you weren't broken you wouldn't have DID. You can deny that but science proves you wrong.

[mater-three]

This is the first time I have ever said anything about you. Your brain is broken you can deny it but that doesn't change facts.

There’s nothing wrong with my brain. I’m a strong, intelligent, compassionate woman who has lived through a unimaginable traumatic situation. I’ve also raised 3 functional, intelligent, and wonderfully adapted kids. A person who lived through what I have and can do that is far from broken. You can assume what you please; your opinion matters very little to me.

You can have a broken brain and still be those things. If you weren't broken you wouldn't have DID. You can deny that but science proves you wrong.

Actually science proves that I had an unique and intelligent way to deal with my trauma. Contrary to what you try to portray, everyone has different parts of their personality-even you. People who have had extreme trauma in their lives simply split those parts. It’s called disassociation and you do it too - everyone does. You can try and make me feel broken but the fact is science does NOT prove my brain is broken; it proves it’s skilled in surviving what some could not. It’s the disassociation that kept me alive. It’s my unique ability to adapt and handle. That’s not broken; that’s amazing.

[Frau Holle]

This is the first time I have ever said anything about you. Your brain is broken you can deny it but that doesn't change facts.

There’s nothing wrong with my brain. I’m a strong, intelligent, compassionate woman who has lived through a unimaginable traumatic situation. I’ve also raised 3 functional, intelligent, and wonderfully adapted kids. A person who lived through what I have and can do that is far from broken. You can assume what you please; your opinion matters very little to me.

You can have a broken brain and still be those things. If you weren't broken you wouldn't have DID. You can deny that but science proves you wrong.

Are you actually trying to sound intelligent by saying “science” would agree that someone has a “broken brain”?

Are you 12 years old and new to this whole “ being offensive “ game?

Sit down child, your time will come to play with the big kids, but it’s not today.

[Linda_Runs]

I will always love my girls. I might be disappointed in their life choices, or even angry, but I will always love them.

Totally! I would like to think all parents think like us, but sadly that is not true.