My husband and I are getting divorced. I came home from work one day to find him and all his stuff gone. He left me for his mistress and moved in with her. At first I was hurt, angry, and confused. It was totally out of character for him. After awhile I realized it was for the best. I don't need him and my life has become a lot better since he left.
Last night he showed up at the house with chocolate and flowers. He said he was wrong and went crazy. He tried to say it was just a mid life crisis and that he freaked out about getting old and acted irrationally. He wants to get back together. He said he came to his senses and he wants to spend the rest of his life with me. He wants to go to marriage counseling and make us work.
I took the chocolates and the flowers and told him to f**k off. There is nothing that would make me take him back but blaming it on a mid life crisis is more of a slap in the face than anything.
He thought I was just going to take him back because he came to his sense
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I can’t blame you. He probably got dumped and thought he could spin you a sob story full of excuses.
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No, you don’t need him and I’m not surprised your life is better without him. He acted selfishly without any care for you at all. You deserve better than that. Good for you on realizing that. He betrayed your trust, your marriage, and you then thought he could woo you back with the most generic offerings and words. You may like chocolate and flowers, but I would have been insulted by such a gesture under the circumstances. Good luck in your new life of happiness.
I'd say good for you if I didn't know this was a troll.Anonymous 1 wrote: ↑Tue Aug 04, 2020 3:18 pm My husband and I are getting divorced. I came home from work one day to find him and all his stuff gone. He left me for his mistress and moved in with her. At first I was hurt, angry, and confused. It was totally out of character for him. After awhile I realized it was for the best. I don't need him and my life has become a lot better since he left.
Last night he showed up at the house with chocolate and flowers. He said he was wrong and went crazy. He tried to say it was just a mid life crisis and that he freaked out about getting old and acted irrationally. He wants to get back together. He said he came to his senses and he wants to spend the rest of his life with me. He wants to go to marriage counseling and make us work.
I took the chocolates and the flowers and told him to f**k off. There is nothing that would make me take him back but blaming it on a mid life crisis is more of a slap in the face than anything.
I don’t blame you at all. I would never ever take back a cheater. That’s a dealbreaker for me. The second you make the decision to be with another girl, that’s your girl now. Don’t bother coming back. And really, chocolate and flowers? That’s almost insulting to make up for cheating.
How am I a troll? Jeeze not everyone on this website is a troll.Dylexsmommy wrote: ↑Tue Aug 04, 2020 3:52 pmI'd say good for you if I didn't know this was a troll.Anonymous 1 wrote: ↑Tue Aug 04, 2020 3:18 pm My husband and I are getting divorced. I came home from work one day to find him and all his stuff gone. He left me for his mistress and moved in with her. At first I was hurt, angry, and confused. It was totally out of character for him. After awhile I realized it was for the best. I don't need him and my life has become a lot better since he left.
Last night he showed up at the house with chocolate and flowers. He said he was wrong and went crazy. He tried to say it was just a mid life crisis and that he freaked out about getting old and acted irrationally. He wants to get back together. He said he came to his senses and he wants to spend the rest of his life with me. He wants to go to marriage counseling and make us work.
I took the chocolates and the flowers and told him to f**k off. There is nothing that would make me take him back but blaming it on a mid life crisis is more of a slap in the face than anything.