Why do people think I have to dye my hair?

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I'm fat. I'm old. I'm sloppy. I'm ugly.

My hair is turning white/gray. So F***ing what? I don't care what I look like. I don't want to dye my hair. My mother, husband and son won't stop talking about how my hair needs dyed. It's my F***ing hair. I don't give a f**k about it. Dying my hair isn't going to make me any less ugly, fat, sloppy or old. What the f**k makes people think women have to dye their hair?
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My guess is they're concerned because you see yourself as fat sloppy and ugly. So perhaps they think dyeing your hair will make you feel better about yourself. I'm not telling you what to do although I dye my hair. You don't have to. It's a pain once you start. But You might be old and fat but you don't need to be sloppy. I'm fat and middle aged. But it doesn't need to define me. That's the part to address.
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You don't have to, but it might make a world of a difference in how you see yourself. Sometimes it's the little things that change your outlook.
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You don’t have to do anything you don’t want to do. Don’t want to dye your hair, then don’t, and tell them to butt out.
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I'm old, fat and ugly too. I'm letting mine go grey. I'm tired of trying.
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I have never dyed my hair and don't plan to ever start even when I'm gray.
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I'm far too vain to not. The last 2 months of house arrest have caused a grey streak. It needs to go! I'm up to twice a year now. LOL

Honestly, I think you might feel better about yourself if you did take a bit more care. It'll probably do wonders to perk you up, then the better you feel the more you'll want to do. Your family probably sees the depression you seem to be feeling and wants you to be happy and engage with them more.
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I don’t dye my hair, and don’t intend on starting. While I know that I’m overweight and getting some greys, I’m not down on myself like you seem to be. I hope that’s an exaggeration for this post, but if it isn’t, you should try to find something to make yourself feel better about yourself. Whether or not you choose to dye your hair should be because you want to, not for anyone else.
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Pjmm wrote: Wed May 27, 2020 10:01 pm My guess is they're concerned because you see yourself as fat sloppy and ugly. So perhaps they think dyeing your hair will make you feel better about yourself. I'm not telling you what to do although I dye my hair. You don't have to. It's a pain once you start. But You might be old and fat but you don't need to be sloppy. I'm fat and middle aged. But it doesn't need to define me. That's the part to address.
You do realize that being fat is a choice you’ve made, correct?
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I agree. Maybe they’re trying to boost her self esteem with a simple solution
Pjmm wrote: Wed May 27, 2020 10:01 pm My guess is they're concerned because you see yourself as fat sloppy and ugly. So perhaps they think dyeing your hair will make you feel better about yourself. I'm not telling you what to do although I dye my hair. You don't have to. It's a pain once you start. But You might be old and fat but you don't need to be sloppy. I'm fat and middle aged. But it doesn't need to define me. That's the part to address.
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