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Linda_Runs wrote: Wed May 27, 2020 9:58 am
Lotus wrote: Wed May 27, 2020 9:07 am the distribution of child pornography is a crime, Id be starting there.
For the 17 year old yes. I would think about starting there. As for my 15 year old, the thoughts that would go through my mind would be parentally mean if I acted upon them. LOL!
Oh, yes! ditto.
So many scenarios run through my thoughts and just about every single one of them would include me, vodka, and getting arrested.
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Anonymous 5 wrote: Wed May 27, 2020 2:49 pm
Lotus wrote: Wed May 27, 2020 9:07 am the distribution of child pornography is a crime, Id be starting there.
So you would want your kid to become a S*x offender?
yes of course. oy.
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Lotus wrote: Thu May 28, 2020 6:39 am
Linda_Runs wrote: Wed May 27, 2020 9:58 am
Lotus wrote: Wed May 27, 2020 9:07 am the distribution of child pornography is a crime, Id be starting there.
For the 17 year old yes. I would think about starting there. As for my 15 year old, the thoughts that would go through my mind would be parentally mean if I acted upon them. LOL!
Oh, yes! ditto.
So many scenarios run through my thoughts and just about every single one of them would include me, vodka, and getting arrested.
My husband would be looking after the boy. He is very even tempered. I think he would likely go through the police. As for this child of mine, she would be mine! By the way, I know two parents that this has happened to. Both their girls were 13.
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She wouldn't have access to the internet for a very long time.
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Linda_Runs wrote: Thu May 28, 2020 9:07 am
Lotus wrote: Thu May 28, 2020 6:39 am
Linda_Runs wrote: Wed May 27, 2020 9:58 am

For the 17 year old yes. I would think about starting there. As for my 15 year old, the thoughts that would go through my mind would be parentally mean if I acted upon them. LOL!
Oh, yes! ditto.
So many scenarios run through my thoughts and just about every single one of them would include me, vodka, and getting arrested.
My husband would be looking after the boy. He is very even tempered. I think he would likely go through the police. As for this child of mine, she would be mine! By the way, I know two parents that this has happened to. Both their girls were 13.

UGH, truly a nightmare for everyone involved.
We have had incidents within my community where this has been an issue. The police were involved every time because the pictures inevitably got passed and talked about on school premises. Then of course along comes the local news coverage.
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Lotus wrote: Thu May 28, 2020 9:39 am
Linda_Runs wrote: Thu May 28, 2020 9:07 am
Lotus wrote: Thu May 28, 2020 6:39 am

Oh, yes! ditto.
So many scenarios run through my thoughts and just about every single one of them would include me, vodka, and getting arrested.
My husband would be looking after the boy. He is very even tempered. I think he would likely go through the police. As for this child of mine, she would be mine! By the way, I know two parents that this has happened to. Both their girls were 13.

UGH, truly a nightmare for everyone involved.
We have had incidents within my community where this has been an issue. The police were involved every time because the pictures inevitably got passed and talked about on school premises. Then of course along comes the local news coverage.
We have had that too with three actual people I know with young teen girls where they were groomed online. In two cases, part of the grooming was sending pictures then those two 13 year old's had plans to meet a guy. The other was 13 as well but was a case of just sharing pictures. Thankfully none of it ever ended up at school.
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Linda_Runs wrote: Fri May 29, 2020 7:41 am
Lotus wrote: Thu May 28, 2020 9:39 am
Linda_Runs wrote: Thu May 28, 2020 9:07 am

My husband would be looking after the boy. He is very even tempered. I think he would likely go through the police. As for this child of mine, she would be mine! By the way, I know two parents that this has happened to. Both their girls were 13.

UGH, truly a nightmare for everyone involved.
We have had incidents within my community where this has been an issue. The police were involved every time because the pictures inevitably got passed and talked about on school premises. Then of course along comes the local news coverage.
We have had that too with three actual people I know with young teen girls where they were groomed online. In two cases, part of the grooming was sending pictures then those two 13 year old's had plans to meet a guy. The other was 13 as well but was a case of just sharing pictures. Thankfully none of it ever ended up at school.

It is so scary. One particular young girl's situation was broadcasted all over the news. I often wonder how she got past all of it and how she is doing today. For an upper-middle-class area, we also have ha high incidents of suicide in multiple school districts that have had to be addressed.
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Lotus wrote: Fri May 29, 2020 7:54 am
Linda_Runs wrote: Fri May 29, 2020 7:41 am
Lotus wrote: Thu May 28, 2020 9:39 am


UGH, truly a nightmare for everyone involved.
We have had incidents within my community where this has been an issue. The police were involved every time because the pictures inevitably got passed and talked about on school premises. Then of course along comes the local news coverage.
We have had that too with three actual people I know with young teen girls where they were groomed online. In two cases, part of the grooming was sending pictures then those two 13 year old's had plans to meet a guy. The other was 13 as well but was a case of just sharing pictures. Thankfully none of it ever ended up at school.

It is so scary. One particular young girl's situation was broadcasted all over the news. I often wonder how she got past all of it and how she is doing today. For an upper-middle-class area, we also have ha high incidents of suicide in multiple school districts that have had to be addressed.
Oh I get it! The thing is that this is problem is not class orientated. It might even be more towards middle, upper middle and beyond because these kids have access to so much technology that they don't have to share with siblings and they are often in larger homes with much privacy. All three of the incidents that I mentioned were from upper middle class families.

I will never say never, but 99 percent I will say this situation won't happen to my two girls. We do unannounced spot checks, but they can work around that if they want. The only thing we can do is hopefully provide the moral code they need to make the right choice and put the threat of extreme consequences in place - which we have!
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Linda_Runs wrote: Fri May 29, 2020 8:18 am
Lotus wrote: Fri May 29, 2020 7:54 am
Linda_Runs wrote: Fri May 29, 2020 7:41 am

We have had that too with three actual people I know with young teen girls where they were groomed online. In two cases, part of the grooming was sending pictures then those two 13 year old's had plans to meet a guy. The other was 13 as well but was a case of just sharing pictures. Thankfully none of it ever ended up at school.

It is so scary. One particular young girl's situation was broadcasted all over the news. I often wonder how she got past all of it and how she is doing today. For an upper-middle-class area, we also have ha high incidents of suicide in multiple school districts that have had to be addressed.
Oh I get it! The thing is that this is problem is not class orientated. It might even be more towards middle, upper middle and beyond because these kids have access to so much technology that they don't have to share with siblings and they are often in larger homes with much privacy. All three of the incidents that I mentioned were from upper middle class families.

I will never say never, but 99 percent I will say this situation won't happen to my two girls. We do unannounced spot checks, but they can work around that if they want. The only thing we can do is hopefully provide the moral code they need to make the right choice and put the threat of extreme consequences in place - which we have!

Being vigilant and keeping those lines of communication open is key.

You are right we are the litmus test to your point. Social-economic issues are not at play here, we had to really tackle suicide head-on
https://www.wxyz.com/news/students-part ... igh-school.
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Lotus wrote: Fri May 29, 2020 8:30 am
Linda_Runs wrote: Fri May 29, 2020 8:18 am
Lotus wrote: Fri May 29, 2020 7:54 am


It is so scary. One particular young girl's situation was broadcasted all over the news. I often wonder how she got past all of it and how she is doing today. For an upper-middle-class area, we also have ha high incidents of suicide in multiple school districts that have had to be addressed.
Oh I get it! The thing is that this is problem is not class orientated. It might even be more towards middle, upper middle and beyond because these kids have access to so much technology that they don't have to share with siblings and they are often in larger homes with much privacy. All three of the incidents that I mentioned were from upper middle class families.

I will never say never, but 99 percent I will say this situation won't happen to my two girls. We do unannounced spot checks, but they can work around that if they want. The only thing we can do is hopefully provide the moral code they need to make the right choice and put the threat of extreme consequences in place - which we have!

Being vigilant and keeping those lines of communication open is key.

You are right we are the litmus test to your point. Social-economic issues are not at play here, we had to really tackle suicide head-on
https://www.wxyz.com/news/students-part ... igh-school.
The students in Ontario have had similar campaigns. I think it is great that they are taking the initiative and doing something about it. Suicides do happen here, and when they do are quite publicized if the family is willing. We are also deep into the military community were suicide is front and center. We are vigilant and we listen ten times more than we talk (or try to - LOL!). If I was ever in either situation (my child sending pictures or contemplating suicide) I am not sure what I would do? I guess admitting that is a start.
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