Am I a jerk for doing this?

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famousglm714
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No, you’re not a jerk. That’s very annoying and happens to me ALL the time downtown.
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It was ignorant of the restaurant to allow this.
I don't blame you for letting the manager know that you were annoyed that they did.
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I think management should have nipped it in the bud. Makes me wonder if the kid's parent was an employee.
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No, you weren't being a jerk at all. I'm surprised at how many people here say that it wouldn't bother them. I'm generally really easy going, but I would find it very rude to be interrupted like that while I'm trying to eat. That's completely unacceptable.

He could have stood by the exit and asked people as they were leaving.
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Anonymous 1 wrote: Sat Feb 15, 2020 10:54 pm
water<wine wrote: Sat Feb 15, 2020 10:52 pm kinda TBH, its just a kid. why did it bother you so much that he was asking other people?
Uh, he asked me too and was coming back for a second round. I don't want to be bothered when I'm eating.
I agree with OP. It's one thing to have a stand outside the doors asking as people go in and out, but to purposefully interrupt them while they're trying to enjoy their meals is rude. Did the restaurant have a "no soliciting" policy? If so, the manager on duty should have stepped up and enforced it.

I wouldn't have bought anything from him either.
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I find it kind of tacky, but I wouldn't bother an employee about it.
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Alright, Karen
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I definitely would not have said anything.
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I would have asked him where his parents were?
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I don't even like GS or BS hanging out at stores asking for donations or to buy their stuff.. I would be annoyed by someone asking me to buy a candy bar while sitting down to eat in a restaurant.
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