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I'd tell them that they should probably see a counselor and not get into a relationship until they work through their issues.
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I'd say they have work to do and don't need to be in a relationship.
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I'd run for the hills. I have enough of my own shit to deal with and I don't have any interest in dealing with someone else's.
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If there is a trust issue then both parties need to put their cards on the table. What is causing the distrust? Are there real issues or is it projection or self-doubt? Do they want to work on this and move forward?

I would not stay in any relationship where trust was an issue or where I was expected to prove I was trustworthy.
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Depends. Have you been together for 3 weeks or 3 years?
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I don’t trust anyone & have no desire to change
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DD said something like that to me. I thought it meant I'd failed her.
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Anonymous 1 wrote: Sun Nov 10, 2019 11:33 am I love you but I don’t trust anyone ?
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"I am sorry. What can I do to help you trust me?"
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AllofFive19 wrote: Sun Nov 10, 2019 12:27 pm Then you don't really love me. You cant have love without trust. At most they really like me and lust after me, but that's not love.
That isn't true. My husband loves his dad, but he doesn't trust him.
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