Need advice my nephew is squatting

[Mommyofbigkids]

My nephew showed at my door around the 1st of the month. He needed a place to stay for a couple of days. He is still here. Which i don't mind if he is trying to get on his feet. But I don't think he is. he has only applied for 2 jobs. He hustle for gas money but when he get gas he doesn't use it to look for a job. Instead he uses to go see girls and then runs out of gas and doesn't have any to look for a job. I don't want to be a bitch but I need to tell him he needs to get the lead out of his ass or he has got to go.

[Mommyofbigkids]

Bump

[WickedLauraBelle]

I'm sorry. How old is he? What about his parents?

[Mommyofbigkids]

I'm sorry. How old is he? What about his parents?

He's 23. His mom is dead his dad doesn't give a shit about him

[Pjmm]

My mother once was in that situation with a friend of ours. She ended up tossing him out. Some people if you're nice to them they just take all they can get.

[Smarties]

I'd get rid of him before he establishes residency at your house and you have to evict him to get him out.

[Lilysma719]

You need to get him out before he establishes residency.

[Nopeville]

As PPs have said, he needs to go and soon. Otherwise, you'll have to serve him with a 30 day notice, etc.

[WickedLauraBelle]

I'm sorry. How old is he? What about his parents?

He's 23. His mom is dead his dad doesn't give a shit about him

Ugh... I'm sorry

[viv74]

I would sit him down and give him tough love. Tell him he has x amount of time to find a job, he needs to pay x amount weekly until he gets back on his feet. Your in a tough situation, it’s hard to turn family away but at the same time you can’t enable him