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Anonymous 2 wrote: Mon Mar 25, 2019 12:17 pm Definitely well before that.

I wouldn't want my kids to have any memory of their sibling's naked body when they got older, even if they dont care now.
Have we really gotten this prudish? They’re siblings, it’s not a huge deal!
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I'd say it might be different for every set of kids.
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Anonymous 1 wrote: Mon Mar 25, 2019 3:12 pm
Lotus wrote: Mon Mar 25, 2019 1:09 pm Meh, I am the wrong person to ask.

I had to change in a locker room Sunday morning full of men. It is not remotely sexy. I passed on the shower but most of them did take one. Just to drive a few of you mad I will also say there were 3 HS kids on the ice with us. lol.
What? Why did you have to change in the men’s locker room?
sometimes its the downside of playing hockey. over the years you just work out a system that you can be comfortable with so you can play.
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Never? I never saw the need to.
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Anonymous 1 wrote: Mon Mar 25, 2019 3:15 pm
Anonymous 2 wrote: Mon Mar 25, 2019 12:17 pm Definitely well before that.

I wouldn't want my kids to have any memory of their sibling's naked body when they got older, even if they dont care now.
Have we really gotten this prudish? They’re siblings, it’s not a huge deal!

I see it as showing respect to children. It's part of teaching them body autonomy. That is in no way prudish.
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Anonymous 1 wrote: Mon Mar 25, 2019 3:15 pm
Anonymous 2 wrote: Mon Mar 25, 2019 12:17 pm Definitely well before that.

I wouldn't want my kids to have any memory of their sibling's naked body when they got older, even if they dont care now.
Have we really gotten this prudish? They’re siblings, it’s not a huge deal!


We're hardly prudes in my family. This has nothing to do with being prudish. You're free to bathe your kids how you please.
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I have memories of sharing baths with my sister. Thankfully I have no memories of sharing a bath with my brother.
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QuantumNursing wrote: Mon Mar 25, 2019 12:29 pm My children never took baths together
This and none of my siblings or I shared baths either.
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Anonymous 1 wrote: Mon Mar 25, 2019 3:15 pm
Anonymous 2 wrote: Mon Mar 25, 2019 12:17 pm Definitely well before that.

I wouldn't want my kids to have any memory of their sibling's naked body when they got older, even if they dont care now.
Have we really gotten this prudish? They’re siblings, it’s not a huge deal!
It has nothing to do with being prudish but everything to.do with the right to privacy and the right to body autonomy
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Anonymous 1 wrote: Mon Mar 25, 2019 12:13 pm Those of you with a boy and a girl, when did they stop taking baths together? DD is currently 7 and a half, and DS just turned 6.
When they started wanting privacy. There isn't a magical age when it suddenly becomes wrong it is simply when the kids are no longer comfortable.
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