Do you think people who claim to hate kids...

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are just mad that they can't find someone to have them with? Or something along those lines?

My friend who is basically married to her job is acting like a real bitch now that I told her I'm pregnant. Just negative this and negative that. Blah blah blah. I'm annoyed. Another mutual friend and I think in her case (but not all) it's just jealously and sadness that there's a big chance she'll never have a husband or kids. Honestly, it's because of the way she acts. So she puts on this huge front that she hates them. Yet she's mentioned taking my son to Disney. Very confusing.

This is pretty much a vent.
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I didn't like kids that weren't related to me before I had kids. I had plenty of opportunity to have them with decent people.

Even today I don't really like kids that aren't related to me. I don't hate them but I don't love them either.
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carterscutie85 wrote: Wed Aug 22, 2018 4:02 pm I didn't like kids that weren't related to me before I had kids. I had plenty of opportunity to have them with decent people.

Even today I don't really like kids that aren't related to me. I don't hate them but I don't love them either.
I'm not fond of others' kids and I don't deal with them at all but I don't go around vehemently claiming to hate them. I don't hate them. I just don't want to deal with them. Lol. Her opportunities have been few and far between.
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carterscutie85 wrote: Wed Aug 22, 2018 4:02 pm I didn't like kids that weren't related to me before I had kids. I had plenty of opportunity to have them with decent people.

Even today I don't really like kids that aren't related to me. I don't hate them but I don't love them either.
I'm not fond of others' kids and I don't deal with them at all but I don't go around vehemently claiming to hate them. I don't hate them. I just don't want to deal with them. Lol. Her opportunities have been few and far between.
Oh yeah. I don't announce it either. I just kinda ignore them lol.
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Someone hubby was friends with absolutely hates children. Both him and his wife. There is no jealousy. They just don't like kids.
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I love kids.
Especially when I can give them back.
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Hate is a strong word, but I'm not fond of others people's kid's nor have I ever been jealous of a another woman being pregnant. I have one and ONLY one child
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No. Some people just dont like kids.

My SIL and BIL have been married for over 20 years. They hate kids and they could have had them anytime if they had wanted them
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MistressMonster wrote: Wed Aug 22, 2018 4:18 pm Someone hubby was friends with absolutely hates children. Both him and his wife. There is no jealousy. They just don't like kids.
I've seen this before. Not every woman in the world wants to be a Mother, and that's okay to
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luvthagirl wrote: Wed Aug 22, 2018 4:23 pm
MistressMonster wrote: Wed Aug 22, 2018 4:18 pm Someone hubby was friends with absolutely hates children. Both him and his wife. There is no jealousy. They just don't like kids.
I've seen this before. Not every woman in the world wants to be a Mother, and that okay to
I am fine with people not wanting to be parents.
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And the lemons are like the paleness of a lover
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